For most men, women seem like a mystery.  A very difficult puzzle to solve.  Especially when it comes to sexuality and relationships.

And women can't tell you what they secretly wish you knew about female sexuality, because it would violate the unspoken rules.  Even worse… she could get labeled a slut.

So how can you find out what really goes on inside the mind of a woman?   Glad you asked.  You see, It's my job to make that happen.  Just like it's my job to notice things about what really works to give women pleasure.

But let me tell you, it isn't easy to find women who will talk openly.  And I can't blame them, because our society spends years teaching them NOT to talk openly about sexuality.  Just like it teaches men not to reveal their feelings.

So when I make that rare find…

I get pretty damn excited!

And I'm excited now because I'm going to introduce you to a fascinating woman I've become friends with, and along the way, you are going to learn something of almost priceless value which, to my knowledge, has never been revealed before.

Do I have your attention?

Awesome!

Now check this out…

My new friend has a very unique talent.  (It's not what you are thinking.)  You see, as she likes to say "she can not remember a time when she wasn't curious about sex."

This curiosity was enhanced when her mother gave her erotic books at a young age.  But unlike young boys… who prefer to look at pictures… she was attracted to the stories.

It wasn't long before she realized she wanted to write erotic stories one day.  And now she is famous for her published Erotica online, having written over 1000 stories in the last five years!

In case you don't get why this is important… think about it this way…. a woman who writes erotica is already sharing her thoughts about what it's like to be sexual.   In fact, she goes to places in her writing even men would be embarrassed to admit.

She has no problems
speaking bluntly
about sexuality!

In addition to her erotic stories, as you might guess… she enjoys sex.  And much like myself, researches it regularly. (We have had much to talk about!)

Just who is this women I've been raving about? I'm glad you asked.

Her name is Heather Claus, or as she's known to the world as erotic fiction writer Nookie Notes. She is "The Queen Of Erotica" with her own blog at EroticaChallenge.

She also researches love, romance, and the communication between the sexes.  And she has a wealth of insights to offer such as these gems offered up during a recent interview

"Women are VERY sexual creatures… just not in ways most men understand"

"Women often take the first step (towards sex), but rarely escalate. The man must be observant and communicate"

"Women will tell you every step of the way what to do… IF… you are paying attention!"

Now if you just stopped reading right here and absorbed this wisdom, you'd be light years ahead of most guys when it comes to sexuality and relationships.  Let me translate it a bit for you

1. Change your belief about women not being sexual.  You're only making it harder for yourself (and for the women too).
2. She'll give you a signal she wants you, but it will be so subtle 999 guys in 1000 will miss it.  Yet, any woman could spot it across a dimly lit crowded nightclub, and realize another guy blew it.
3. Once you start getting intimate she'll give you everything you need to seduce her, but you'll miss it if you don't put your focus on her.  (In california-speak they would say "get out of your own head")

Make no mistake, she just obliterated a big chunk of the troubles men have with women in 3 simple statements.

Are you with me here?

Good!

Because here's one more for you…  I'm telling you now this one will save your ass.  In all my conversations with women I've never heard this admitted before, so…

stop…

Get something to write with, and make sure you note this one.

ready?

Here goes… Heather said, and I quote:

This is pure gold!  Freaking genius!  And it explains sooooo much I've been teaching you.

But even more important it means, when you know how to give a woman incredible pleasure, using all the techniques you have learned from me…  she'll forgive all the dumb guy-mistakes we ALL make.

It's like being a Masterful Lover is your get-out-of-jail-free card.  (or maybe more accurately, your get out of the doghouse card).

You did wrote that down, right?

And this is just the tip of the iceberg we covered in two different hour long interviews Heather did with me.

And now you can hear her answer the kind of revealing questions guys have always wanted to ask a woman, answered in explicit detail!

And any one of these 'women's secrets' she divulged could easily double your success both in and out of the bedroom:

• 3 little known reasons why a woman won't get "perverse & kinky" with her man!
• The importance of "Sexual Surprise"… and … how to use it to keep your woman humming with anticipation!
• Why if she respects you, a woman would rather die than have sex on the first date!
• A sneaky but ethical technique for getting your woman to let her "inner perv" out!
• 7 major arousal-killing mistakes men make… way before getting near the bedroom!
• Why "sexual danger" is so exhilarating! (this one will blow your mind)
• Relationship magic that will put you light years ahead of other guys!
• A secret technique for getting a woman "exceedingly turned on"!
• The single biggest mistake guys make when receiving pleasure… and… how to avoid it! (it's a HUGE turn off for her)
• 3 things that make bedroom play "Delicious & Necessary"!
• How to virtually guarantee an exciting relationship… and non-stop arousal!
• What key ingredients separate 'winners' from 'losers'! (hint: size & duration do NOT matter)
• How to prevent yourself from missing a woman's subtle sexual messages (this little technique can save you hours of frustration)
• Why you can never let her know she turns you on too often!
• The best way to take the 'fear' out of new & kinky play you want her to engage in!

Well that's just a small portion of the rarely heard women's secrets you will learn when you hear this recorded interview.  But let me forewarn you… this interview is blunt and to the point. But don't let that scare you off.  You need this kind of hard-nosed info, it's not a luxury.  If you truly want to be a Masterful Lover, this kind of information is imperative!

This interview is so good, I wanted to release it to my e-zine subscribers for free, but my business manager Craig told me — No Way David!

He said, while a good percentage of the guys appreciate all the valuable information I share with them every month, and would actually DO SOMETHING with what they learned… There is another percentage who won't even bother to listen to the entire recording.

He said these are the types of people who complain that all I ever do is sell them more stuff.  They look at my information as a cost, not an investment.

Unfortunately, I Had To Agree With Him!

In fact, the stuff I share for free is light-years beyond what you can find anywhere else.  I just had a guy send me a raving thank you letter for changing his life with women, and ALL he used was what he learned from my blog!

My business manager said, "if someone is too cheap to pony up at least a few bucks for this gem of an interview, they shouldn't have it." Who am I to argue?  This is the man who has built my business from a hobby to reaching hundreds of thousands of men and women in 28 countries around the globe.

So we came to an agreement…  I would only send this interview to my VIP Inner Circle members, because the Inner Circle guys are INSATIABLE when it comes to learning about women, relationships, and sexual pleasure.

But, guys who are not yet Inner Circle members could also get a copy of the Heather Claus interview by taking a 'test-drive' of the VIP program.

So, if you want a copy of this "killer" interview, you can get it for only $9.97 ($19.97 outside the USA), by signing up for the 39 day trial offer of the Inner Circle Membership.

Plus, during your trial-membership I'll send you a pile of goodies including the New Members Welcome Package, 2 Inner Circle Newsletters, 2 other awesome interviews, and a special seminar recording I did last year you can't get anywhere else.  Total value of all these goodies is $160!

And there's more… but I'll let you discover the rest.  Full details on the Inner Circle Membership — Trial Offer — and to secure your copy of the Heather Claus interview, use this link:

Happy New Year and give women incredible pleasure!

P.S. This interview will ship on January 1, 2009.  So to get your copy, you must be an ACTIVE member before 11:59PM Eastern Time on December 31, 2008.   If you think I don't mean it… just ask the guy who whined for weeks because he was late.  And just so you know, I don't like whiners.  He's no longer around if you get my drift.

P.P.S. It's only days before a brand-spankin' New Year. It's the time to make big changes in your life, and if you're not having an off-the-charts sexlife… now is the time to do whatever it takes to make that happen.

The success stories my Inner Circle guys are posting on the secret forum, make Penthouse Letters seem tame by comparison.   And there are two big reasons why they are living such a rock-star lifestyle… they never stop LEARNING  and they TAKE ACTION!

All I can do is offer you the same resources… it's up to you to take advantage of them.

I can highly recommend the blog "Awakening From The Dream" by Erika Awakening. She is a very together and enlightened woman who gives advice to men regarding how they might attract high self-esteem women.

In her post "Clarifying Intentions on this Blog", Erika wrote:

"I heard a very refreshing perspective today: a guy who actually values a woman's sexual experience. After spending a lot of time on a men's forum trying to open guys' minds and dissolve the madonna/whore judgments, it feels like a huge relief to know there are guys out there who don't judge women for their sexuality. And who even embrace it."

There you have it guys, a together high self-esteem woman telling you like it is; women want to be the Madonna in the living room, and the whore in the bedroom, in the context of trust and respect. I can assure you that on my forum, men embrace women's sexuality.

In her post "We want to be seduced, reprised", Erika wrote:

"To be taken by a man … is one of the most euphoric feelings a woman can ever experience.

I got to taste it recently, the sensation of my energy surrendering into his, sitting on the bench in a restaurant, a feeling so powerful that I couldn't even speak. Words were just gone, and my head melted into his shoulder.

We want to be taken. Really we do.

Being taken by a man is erotic in a way that defies any logical explanation. It feels like touching the Divine. It feels like surrendering to the What Is.

It feels like trust and passion and power. Like letting go completely and melting into that Place where intimacy and freedom become One.

When I have to do the initiating, or when the guy is hesitant or shy or doesn't lead, I don't get to have that experience, and then I'd just as soon not have sex at all."

There you have it guys, a together high self-esteem woman telling you like it is; women want to be "taken", in the context of trust and respect. It's all good. The question is, are you man enough?

Give women incredible pleasure,
David Shade

***EMAIL from Paul:

Hi, I bought your Manual a few weeks ago, and like any normal guy, I immediately devoured its contents.  Your sections on hypnotic techniques were eye opening, to say the least, because it explained a few things that had happened to me with an ex…

For a long time I'd known that I could drive her nuts by *lightly* stroking her body with the slightest touches from my fingers. I used to do this for an hour before initiating things, while watching TV, for instance, and "petting her" like I might a cat. 

I did it cause I knew it made her feel good (as opposed to it being sexual), and didn't realize what I was doing to her all that time!!  I also knew that my voice and manner of speaking would make her space out.  I knew all this stuff, but didn't realize how it might tie together.

One night, while making out on the bed (clothes on and no genital contact of any kind), I stroked her and kissed her and talked to her and just enjoyed the experience.  This goes on for about a half-hour, and suddenly she's whimpering in my ear and clutching me.  I had made her come!  She said "That was awesome! It was like you were inside my head!!"

And, being a guy (and *having* to brag a little; I earned it!), I discussed it with every woman I knew (including her), and almost all were just amazed that such a thing was even possible.  I figured it was just a freak event, and let it go.  But as soon as I read your descriptions of what your Manual covered, I knew you were on to something immediately!

Thanks so much for putting together such a cool Manual. Hell, if you need the story for a testimonial or something, feel free.  It may sound stupid, but it seems like guys forget the goal of seduction, the point of it all, which is sex, and it might as well be as good as possible.  Part of me wants to keep your Manual secret, but at the same time, everyone should be learning about this stuff!  Thanks!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, a woman's mind is very powerful and sexual.  And it is your passion for giving her pleasure that brings her sexuality to life.

Many guys would probably get their hand pushed away while stroking their woman on the couch because the woman would find it irritating.  But most guys just rush for the sex when they get into the bedroom!

But you spent a half hour in the bedroom lightly stroking her. You were adoring her and reveling in her.  That makes her feel appreciated and special, which allows her to open even more.

When you lightly stroke her and talk softly to her in the bedroom, it gets associated with closeness and sexual intimacy.  Because you did not rush into sex, it does not get associated with horniness. 

Then, at a later time, when you lightly stroke her on the couch, she again feels that sexuality and can enjoy it because she knows that to do so does not commit her to have to quickly move to sex.  Furthermore, it is affirming and reassuring for her, which makes her feel even closer to you.

You trained her to associate your voice and gentle touch to her feelings of closeness and sensuality.  She surrenders to your voice and touch, totally lets go, melts into completeness, integrates closeness with sexuality, feels completely naked to you in every way, and her mind naturally slips into an orgasm.

>>>TAKEAWAY POINTS:

This is how it's done guys.  You lead, she surrenders, she experiences her sexuality even deeper, she allows herself to become even more naked to you, she surrenders further, she experiences her sexuality even deeper, she allows herself to become even more naked to you.

In my Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms program I discuss all of this at great length with numerous specific examples of what to say and how to say it, including the language to bring out her sexuality, lots of fun ways to give her an orgasm and how to link it to your voice!