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I’ve got a surprise for you! One I’m sure you’ll enjoy. It’s an interview with the lovely Miss Heather Ann Havenwood.

Now, if you are one of my VIP Inner Circle Members, you just perked right up. You know the incredible revealing interviews Heather Ann did with me last year.

She is a woman who is not afraid to talk about sexuality, relationships, and what women want in a man.

What you might not know is that Heather Ann also coaches men on dating, mating & courting. In particular how to be successful at online dating or as she calls it “Digital Dating”.

If you know Heather Ann, you know she tells it like it is and pulls no punches.

In this interview you’ll get a rare look at how women experience your profile on online dating sites. Discover the mistakes you are making online
that drives the women you want away, and finally learn what works instead.

Listen… you don’t need to be rich, handsome, or buff to meet attractive sensual women online. But there is ONE thing they are looking for, Heather gives you the inside scoop and lets you peek into the women’s side of online dating.

In this 54 minute interview you’ll discover:

  • The devastating mistakes men make in online ads
  • Why you NEVER want to show another woman in your
    profile photos
  • The subtle hints in your profile that let women
    know you are a real man and not another ‘castrated’
    nice guy.
  • The #1 question every woman has in her head (and
    the right way to answer it)
  • You want a hot woman, but your ad might drive
    them away… find out why
  • How to connect with women on Facebook
  • Which photos turn women on (and which ones
    intimidate them)
  • What elements to include that get a woman to
    think “I can see myself with him”
  • The importance of “safe” to a woman looking at
    online dating profiles
  • Why showing you’re not perfect will attract high
    quality women
  • Simple first date mistakes that are instant turn
    offs for a woman
  • How to know if a woman wants you to approach
  • The 2 most important things all women want from
    the man they are dating (hint: it’s not money,
    status, or a big johnson)

This is a free interview for my customers. A gift for you as my way of saying thank you.

I know you’ll enjoy it because Heather Ann’s interviews with my Inner Circle Members are still the most requested I have ever put out.

Heather Ann Havenwood - Date Your Dream Woman:

Download Link: Date Your Dream Woman (mp3)

Give women incredible pleasure,

David Shade

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If you know my story, you know I’ve been sharing my secrets for being a Masterful Lover since the early ‘wild-west’ days of the Internet.

I’m talking before web browsers were invented, and all we had was email.

In those days I was on a quest for knowledge and truth about female sexuality, because 99% of what was in the bookstores was pure crap. (Things haven’t improved much, it’s probably 97% crap now)

The way I figured things out was to experiment. And yes… I made a ton of mistakes and lost some good women along the way.  But for me, it was worth it.

Now I realize most guys who come to me don’t want to learn the hard way.  Especially if they are in a relationship.  And you shouldn’t have to screw things up… that’s what I’m here for, to show you what works.

But, here’s the thing…  I can teach you all my techniques, methods, and secrets about women… and it won’t do you any damn good if your head is all messed up.

Biggest Block To Success

Without a doubt the biggest block to success is your beliefs about sexuality.  This goes for men and women.

If a man doesn’t have healthy beliefs about sexuality, he’ll approach making love like he’s walking on eggshells.  He won’t take the lead, or be commanding and confident.

A women can smell this a mile away and it’s a total TURN-OFF!

If a woman doesn’t have healthy beliefs about sexuality, she won’t orgasm.  It’s a sad but true fact.  Sometimes this requires therapy to fix.

The Missing Piece Of The Puzzle

In my book, The Secrets of Female Sexuality, one of the first things I set out to do is help the reader change his beliefs about women and sexuality.

And for some men, this is like finding the missing piece of the puzzle.  A light goes on for them and suddenly they are having more wild fun in the bedroom than most rock stars.

But, it doesn’t work for all guys.

And it frustrated the hell out of me for many years, because I WANT all my clients to have mind-blowing sex with their women.

An Accidental Discovery

I happened to discover a solution to this problem quite by accident.

You see, I like to have women present at my live events.  It’s why I always tell men you can bring your woman for free.  Women love to talk about sex (more about this later) and it always makes for a more lively event.

In February of 2008 at my Bring Out Her Inner Slut seminar, I had an attractive woman pull me aside and tell me something completely unexpected…

She Was Mobbed By The Guys!

She told me that each time I called a break she was mobbed by guys in the audience wanting to know if what I said was true!

I was shocked!

Later, I realized a very valuable teaching lesson from what she told me… Many men need PROOF from a woman that what I say is true.

Even though they WANT to believe me… As soon as they hear it from a woman, it some how makes it true for them and Bingo! They change their beliefs and everything falls into place.

Since that realization in Tampa almost 2 years ago, I’ve made it an ongoing goal to find women who will open up and really give you the dirt on what turns them on sexually.

Getting Women To Talk About NAUGHTY

Plus, I’ve honed my skills as an interviewer to get them to open up and feel totally comfortable talking about very naughty, risque, and taboo subjects. (Stuff they don’t even tell their best girlfriends)

Recently I found and interviewed two such women. Two women who are remarkable because they too have made it their life’s work to teach people the truth about sexuality.  Truth based on what people are actually doing in the bedroom.   This of course made it very easy to talk about the really taboo stuff.

Eroticize Your Sex-Life


The first woman is a renowned sexologist who gets totally turned on by helping people to ‘Eroticize Their Sex-Lives’. Her name is Yvonne Fulbright.

Yvonne is frank and not a bit shy when it comes to talking about sexuality.

The second woman you may already be familiar with… She has the most popular sexuality podcast on the Internet, and is now also on broadcast radio across the USA.

Her name is Emily Morse and her show is called Sex With Emily. Emily loves to smash long held stereotypes about sexuality and pulls no punches.

Now, normally I would not combine interviews, but these woman independently confirmed some of the key beliefs I teach men about female sexuality. So it only made sense to put them together to drill these ideas home.

2 Women Reveal The Secrets of What Makes A Man A Good Lover

Here’s a sample of what you’ll discover in these fascinating interviews:

  • Where the vast majority of hot foreplay happens for a woman. (most guys are totally CLUELESS about this)
  • The #1 thing women who are able to have REALLY GOOD SEX have in common.
  • Where women want you to STIMULATE their bodies. (You’ll be shocked at this one!)
  • 5 reasons why a woman can’t ‘come’ (and what YOU can do to help her)
  • The GATEWAY ORGASM that leads to all others. (A Masterful Lover always starts here)
  • The #1 FRUSTRATION women have with men in the bedroom.
  • Amazing insights into the sexual mind of the Modern Woman.  (If you are dating WOMEN UNDER 40, you absolutey need to know this)
  • 2 simple things you can do to make your woman think you are the most awesome man ever. (Takes less than 5 MINUTES a day!)
  • Sometimes demanding a woman have an orgasm is a huge turn on. (Find out when…)
  • The SECRET SAUCE in romance novels you can use to make a woman crazy about you.
  • Are you smart about sex? (Find out why this turns women on)
  • 4 simple steps to blow her mind the FIRST TIME you make love!
  • The subconscious power of sexuality! (Does it control you?  You may be surprised…)
  • A woman who doesn’t pleasure herself is a RED FLAG… find out why!
  • Why some women ’shut down’ with men and can’t have an orgasm! (and what you can do to ‘open’ her to amazing experiences)
  • Are you a Tortoise or a Hare?  (Discover who WINS in the bedroom!)
  • The all too common (and STUPID) thing men do that drives women away!  (I’ve done it, I’ll bet you have too)
  • When you are lost on the highway, do you stop for directions or keep going? Discover what this says ABOUT YOU as a lover!
  • Are hookups more important than relationships for women? (The answer may surprise you!)
  • Where most men TRIP-UP when making love to a woman for the first time!
  • How to get a woman ADDICTED to you! (It’s easier than you think)
  • The ‘Self-Pleasure’ paradox! (and how you can use it as a LEADING INDICATOR of orgasm)
  • How to get your woman to do something very NAUGHTY for you!  (This will get her very excited)
  • The #1 mistake men make about a WOMAN’S BODY during foreplay!
  • Why you as a man should NEVER be intimidated by a woman who has a dildo! (Even if it’s 8″ long)
  • The awesome, never fails, smooth way to introduce sex toys into bedroom play! (And why you SHOULD do this sooner rather than later)
  • A really simple way to make your woman feel beautiful and SEXY! (There is no faster way to turn her on)
  • 2 simple things to keep the FIRE burning in any relationship!
  • The #1 cause of sexual problems in men and women! (hint: it’s not cured with Viagra)
  • Are you a creature of habit? This could be DEVASTATING your sex life!
  • The solution to a woman’s lack of orgasm isn’t better technique or the position of the day! (Discover what really works)
  • The COLD-HARD TRUTH about what women find most important in a man! (hint: good-in-bed is way down the list)
  • 3 things men SECRETLY know but don’t want to admit women want in a relationship!
  • The LUBRICATION for great sex! (hint: it isn’t Astroglide)
  • The Mule-Headed Mistake 93% of men make in the bedroom. (Women will leave you if you do this… guaranteed)
  • The ultimate ‘cure’ for BEDROOM BOREDOM! (It even works if you have little or no sexual experience)
  • And discover the ONE reason why bad boys have SO much POWER WITH WOMEN, even though they are inconsiderate jerks, and how YOU TOO can have this much power while still being a good guy! (This secret should be a product all by itself!)

Bluntly, this is an intense interview. And you’ll be stunned at just how freaking stupid men can be with a woman. We’ve all made similar mistakes, that’s why an interview like this is so valuable.

A Peek Inside The Bedrooms Of America

These two women have worked with thousands of men, women and couples.  What they reveal is not just their opinion, this is real world sexuality from the bedrooms of America.

When they tell you the biggest complaint women have about sex, they are telling you what they hear day-in and day-out, 365 days a year for the last 10 years.

So… I suggest you PAY ATTENTION!

In fact, this is a great Dual-Interview and I think you should get it.

The interviews will ship out July 1, 2009. But there is a catch… to receive it, you MUST be a member of my VIP Inner Circle Membership BEFORE 11:59 PM Eastern Time, Wednesday, June 24, 2009.

There is still time for you to sign up and get a copy.  In fact, I’ll let you take a Test-Drive of my VIP Inner Circle program by joining on the trial-membership for only $9.97.

But you MUST sign up BEFORE 11:59 PM Eastern Time, Wednesday, June 24, 2009.

To lock in your copy of this killer interview use this link. You’ll also find out all the other benefits you get as a member of my VIP Inner Circle during your trial membership (over $180 value).

One more thing, and this is important… only VIP members who are active as of Wednesday June 24th will get a copy of this rare Double-Interview. To get your copy, you must start your Trial Membership before 11:59 PM Eastern Time on June 24 or you will miss out.

And when I make a deadline I stick to it. If your registration comes in at 12:01 AM you won’t get it. My point… do it NOW before you get busy and forget.

Give women incredible pleasure,

P.S. Extra Bonus! When you start your VIP Inner Circle Trial Membership I’ll immediately send you the New Member Welcome Kit. It has the special edition of my VIP only newsletter with the New Member’s Guide ($25 value) and a limited edition recording of a one-time seminar I did in San Francisco for Meetings With Masters ($79 value).

The Trial Membership is only $9.97. If you decide to cancel, you get to keep everything I send you, including the New Member’s Package, all newsletters, and all audio interviews!

P.P.S. Remember, to get this rare Double-Interview you must be an ACTIVE member as of 11:59PM (Eastern Time) June 24th, 2009.

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This week marks the 200th anniversary of one of the great musical geniuses of all time. Austria (his birthplace) is gearing up to celebrate with concerts, exhibits and other events.

Even if you don’t listen to classical music, chances are you’ve heard of Joseph Haydn.

He is referred to as the “Father of the Symphony” and also had a big impact in developing genres such as the string quartet, the sonata and the concerto.

He was extremely prolific, leaving behind more than 100 major works and hundreds of shorter pieces.

He also is a classic ‘rags-to-riches’ story.  He came from a small village and had to leave home at the very young age of 6 to be able to study music.

But a combination of determination and talent landed him very wealthy benefactors who sponsored him in his very successful career.

He had a perfect life with one exception…

HE HATED HIS WIFE!

It is said that “Joseph Haydn was a man who quarreled with no one but his wife.”

And what makes this more remarkable is he worshiped women.  All women except for his wife, who used to rip up his scores and use the paper as hair curlers.

Haydn himself wrote My wife, that infernal beast and that she “cared not a straw whether he was an artist or a shoemaker”

Now as a modern male you are probably wondering why the hell he just doesn’t get a divorce.  But in those days the laws of the time did not allow such a thing.

HE WAS STUCK… FOREVER
IN A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP

No way out.  Fortunately for him, because of his position he was able spend most of his life away from her.  He also took mistresses (many from what I understand).  Like I said… he worshipped women.

So here is this amazing guy, he’s on top of the world, he has great friends  (Mozart was one of his close buddies), he hangs out with royalty, and is able to create beautiful music for thousands of people.

But there is one black spot and he can’t do a damn thing about it.

He is stuck with an “infernal beast” of a wife, and he can’t get out of the marriage.

He was so unhappy with her, they never had children.  One of his great regrets in life.

All because he made one mistake early in his life. At the age of 27…

HE CHOOSE POORLY

He choose a woman who did not like or understand music.  A woman who was very jealous.  A woman who nagged him and even tore up his life’s work.

Haydn lived to be 77, and though his wife died before he did, he was too old to enjoy his new freedom and remarry.

He had to live with his bad choice of a woman for 50 years!  Basically the rest of his life.

It’s too bad he didn’t have the options you have today like getting a divorce. But fact is, a divorce can wreck your life for many years and cost well over $100,000.

So the real secret is to select wisely.

SUCCESS BEGINS BY CHOOSING WISELY

I’ve been telling this to my clients for years, and the ones that listen and use my methods for screening women are also the ones that write or call me raving about the amazing sex life they have.

If you choose wisely… EVERYTHING… and I do mean everything… I teach you will work.

And you will have a woman who is so grateful for the pleasure you bring into her life, she will do ANYTHING to make you happy.

Are you getting an idea of how incredibly important it is to choose well?

I hope so.  I’ve been through a gut-wrenching $100,000 divorce and I can tell you it sucks!

That divorce is why I spent years researching how to NEVER make the same mistake again, then field tested them and later had my clients field test them.

With my covert methods, in minutes you can know exactly if a woman will be ideal for you.  And they are actually EASY to spot, when you know how.

I’ve put all my secrets for selecting women into a simple, methodical system that makes it virtually foolproof to screen for the intelligent, emotionally healthy, and highly sexual women.

When you find a woman like this…

YOU ARE IN FOR ONE WILD RIDE!

It’s just been released.   Go check it out now!

Select women wisely, and give women incredible pleasure,

P.S. As always I stand behind my programs for a full year.

P.P.S. The Introductory Special Offer ends on Wednesday June 10.

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