Comments on: About http://masterful-lover.com/blog Your Guide To A Better Sex Life! Fri, 03 Feb 2012 04:01:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Tom http://masterful-lover.com/blog/about/#comment-1640 Tom Tue, 31 Mar 2009 00:09:05 +0000 #comment-1640 I was married for 10 years and quite by accident and early on figured out both Clitoral and Vaginal orgasm techniques, she would orgasm over and over spraying the entire bed. Things went bad, she got into drugs etc. and we got divorced. I found a new lady who was a 41 yr old virgin, she was so tight that it took 3 weeks of pain and effort to get inside and she has a great deal of pain every time I try to get inside, it has been 1 1/2 years since we got married and getting inside is no less of an effort than trying to get it into a straw and she hurts about that much too. She will not allow my finger in because it hurts too. ANY IDEAS THAT MAY HELP? I feel like a beginner and she thinks I am a beginner too, she expects ORGASMS and I can't get her anywhere near one, Personally I think she is holding back because of the pain, which I respect but she wants her inability to orgasm to be my fault. She is a devout christian so dirty talk or video to get her aroused flies like a concrete airplane. Anyone with ideas out there? I was married for 10 years and quite by accident and early on figured out both Clitoral and Vaginal orgasm techniques, she would orgasm over and over spraying the entire bed. Things went bad, she got into drugs etc. and we got divorced. I found a new lady who was a 41 yr old virgin, she was so tight that it took 3 weeks of pain and effort to get inside and she has a great deal of pain every time I try to get inside, it has been 1 1/2 years since we got married and getting inside is no less of an effort than trying to get it into a straw and she hurts about that much too. She will not allow my finger in because it hurts too. ANY IDEAS THAT MAY HELP? I feel like a beginner and she thinks I am a beginner too, she expects ORGASMS and I can't get her anywhere near one, Personally I think she is holding back because of the pain, which I respect but she wants her inability to orgasm to be my fault. She is a devout christian so dirty talk or video to get her aroused flies like a concrete airplane. Anyone with ideas out there?

]]> By: Patrick Taylor http://masterful-lover.com/blog/about/#comment-1605 Patrick Taylor Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:08:52 +0000 #comment-1605 cont. Problem--She told me, well, threw in my face, after our unsuccessful evening, that It was all My conquest and she doesn't think she needs to have clitoral orgasms. I felt that after 20 years, I have finally Got It as a lover and wanted to fulfill her in ways I have never been able to. She also said when I told her to relax and feel pleasure and Let Go...that memories of all her jerky boyfriends and others in her past who have hurt her, came to mind. (We all know what kind of guys women secretively want) This is a woman, who, in our early years of dating and marriage, has allowed me to tie her up, spread cold Hershey's chocolate all over her and lick it off. We would have sex in the pool, in the middle of the day in our apt. complex. We even had a threesome years ago. I ask, How she could Now, bring this idea up of not being able to "Let Go and Give herself to me". She says she never masturbates or has fantasies. I can't tell you what this has done to me mentally and has deflated my sexual esteem. Single guys can show the attitude of, "I could do with or without you," not let it affect them, and move on. We have much more invested, not to mention 3 wonderful children. 20, 16 and 11. I am a very young looking 43 year-old. I get mistaken as my oldest daughters boyfriend at times. I just don't understand how Anyone would not want more pleasure in their life...especially women, who get "The short end" ha ha...in more ways than one (size and orgasm). Again, I hope I can send a success conclusion to this. Please advise. I live here in Vegas, I'd love for both her and I to attend your conference in January...?? cont.
Problem–She told me, well, threw in my face, after our unsuccessful evening, that It was all My conquest and she doesn’t think she needs to have clitoral orgasms. I felt that after 20 years, I have finally Got It as a lover and wanted to fulfill her in ways I have never been able to. She also said when I told her to relax and feel pleasure and Let Go…that memories of all her jerky boyfriends and others in her past who have hurt her, came to mind. (We all know what kind of guys women secretively want) This is a woman, who, in our early years of dating and marriage, has allowed me to tie her up, spread cold Hershey’s chocolate all over her and lick it off. We would have sex in the pool, in the middle of the day in our apt. complex. We even had a threesome years ago. I ask, How she could Now, bring this idea up of not being able to “Let Go and Give herself to me”. She says she never masturbates or has fantasies. I can’t tell you what this has done to me mentally and has deflated my sexual esteem. Single guys can show the attitude of, “I could do with or without you,” not let it affect them, and move on. We have much more invested, not to mention 3 wonderful children. 20, 16 and 11. I am a very young looking 43 year-old. I get mistaken as my oldest daughters boyfriend at times. I just don’t understand how Anyone would not want more pleasure in their life…especially women, who get “The short end” ha ha…in more ways than one (size and orgasm).

Again, I hope I can send a success conclusion to this. Please advise. I live here in Vegas, I’d love for both her and I to attend your conference in January…??

]]> By: Patrick Taylor http://masterful-lover.com/blog/about/#comment-1604 Patrick Taylor Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:08:22 +0000 #comment-1604 David, I am a desperate married man of 20 years. I want to be a success story in one of your newsletters/blogs. I have studied many great writings from you and other knowledgeable indv. (DeAngelo, Deida, Hicks, Jenkinson etc.) female sexuality, the 4 orgasms, how to please a woman.. etc. etc. My wife, the entire time we've been married has never had a clitoral orgasm but has vaginal ones occasionally. (Not the Norm) She has gotten very close but always pushes me away, saying it is too much. I went through the entire relaxation, breathing, focus on pleasure, touching All non and erogenous zones, to kissing, using my mouth, touching the labia, the entire clitoral region. Never letting her touch me or even getting completely undressed until--She has been completely pleasured and fulfilled. Never once saying orgasm but Pleasure. Cont. in next comment David,
I am a desperate married man of 20 years. I want to be a success story in one of your newsletters/blogs. I have studied many great writings from you and other knowledgeable indv. (DeAngelo, Deida, Hicks, Jenkinson etc.) female sexuality, the 4 orgasms, how to please a woman.. etc. etc. My wife, the entire time we’ve been married has never had a clitoral orgasm but has vaginal ones occasionally. (Not the Norm) She has gotten very close but always pushes me away, saying it is too much. I went through the entire relaxation, breathing, focus on pleasure, touching All non and erogenous zones, to kissing, using my mouth, touching the labia, the entire clitoral region. Never letting her touch me or even getting completely undressed until–She has been completely pleasured and fulfilled. Never once saying orgasm but Pleasure.

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