The new Deep Spot Orgasm video is finally completed. This video shows you exactly how to use the Deep Spot Orgasm Technique, and how the Deep Spot is definitely NOT the G-Spot.
The Official Deep Spot Orgasm Video by David Shade
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David where is the Welcoming method video? I found one video which demonstrated the welcoming method and the deep spot but I cant find it anymore? :S
And is it good to switch from front to back of the deep spot or should you only focus on front? :)
Hi David
I have tried the “deep spot technique” with my girlfriend on various occasions. However she seems to stop me soon into it. She says its too uncomfortable. In addition when I stimulate her g-spot she says she cant handle it and it feels like she is going to pee.
Any advice?
P.S. She has only ever had clitoral orgasms.
Thanks
Hello David !
I have read lots from you and your techniques are GREAT ! i have done most except the deep spot even though I know you recommend to start with it, anyway, yesterday I tried it out and at first I didn’t know if I reached all the way in or not, i got a little response, but no biggie ! Then my GF insisted on going back to the G-spot wich she responded very very well to. Did I reach all the way to the deepspot or if not, when I do, will her response be clearly “GOOD” ? / Markus
“In addition when I stimulate her g-spot she says she cant handle it and it feels like she is going to pee.”
In response: The feeling of having to pee means she’s about to orgasm. See if she’ll ride it out, she won’t regret it.
It was great.
I tried this on my gf the first time with a pretty positive response but no orgasm. I can only get her to orgasm if I give her oral at the same time. The next few times I tried it she said it just feels like pressure. Any tips for this?
The deep spot works very well and the woman was very satisfied
If I do it to a girl who has only been with amateur skilled man and hasn’t achieved an orgasm before, will it be much harder for her to achieve an orgasm or will this technique work regardless?
I have not tried the technic yet but it seem interesting
I liked the video and i learnt about the deep spot.I intend to use it.Thanks for the tips.Keep up with your good work.You really help alot of men who get your tips.
hey dave iv tried the deep spot i with my girl but i dont think i have long enough fingers! what do i do?!
Hello David,
I don’t know if my fingers are long enough. I put my middle finger as far as i can, and rub the area.
My GF looks like she’s liking it but it doesn’t blow her mind, same moaning and gesture like the G-spot.
How can be sure my fingers is hitting the good spot ? Can a finger be not long enough ? (about 3 1/2 inch)
Thanks
This video is educative and i will try the deep spot technique.Keep up with good work
David,
I used the deep spot on a girl I started seeing recently and she responded well — started to move around a lot and moan very loudly, but I didn’t feel any of the contractions that you talk about that indicate orgasm. Well after all the wild moaning and moving, she said she needed a minute to recuperate and had me take out my finger. This happened several times. So my question is does that mean she had an orgasm?
Another question I have is, I could feel the “frisbee” part not very far back, I didn’t have to reach far even to feel it on the back of her deep spot, so was I really touching the deep spot or should I have gone as far as I can? At one point she said “not too deep” but I don’t think I was touching her cervix. Thanks for all your help, David Shade.
P.S. I’m more concerned about the first question.
ok, for me, this is what i do to get a deep spot O (i’m a girl btw) What my man does is start (with 2 fingers) at the very far back wall (behind the cervix). He puts firm pressure on the back wall. Then he moves his fingers with like a “come here action of his fingers tips” like he mentions in the video. But instead of making little “come here action” of his fingers tips, he moves his fingers tips from the back wall, around the cervix and to the front of the cervix, where he mentions the deep spot is at. When he goes around the cervix, he separates his 2 fingers so each finger goes around the cervix. What I’m trying to get at, is its like he’s making a huge “come here” movement, starting at the wall and ending at the deep spot where he talks about in the video.
My man will do this over and over again until i orgasm. When i have a vaginal orgasm, it is a deep body one (similar to the G spot one) but the only difference is that with this kind of orgasm, my entire vaginal just gets soaked. So he can tell if I am having the O when he feels me soaking his fingers.
My man never just used the “deep spot” that is mentioned in the video. Sometimes he doesnt need to do the “huge” sweep with his fingers around the cervix, and usually just does the “come here” with the finger tips in the far back wall. He likes to do different things at different times…I guess change is good LOL
I guess all womens spots are different and that is where my “deep spot” is located or at least makes me have the vaginal O.
And for all that is having issues for their girls that cant get pass the feeling of peeing when stimulating the G spot, i know how those girls feel. But like he said, have her go to the bathroom before hand that way her brain can’t play tricks on her. And just remind her its not pee and when she feels like she is about to pee, tell her to let go and push (bare down), When a girl feels like she is feeling like she has to pee, shes on the edge of having a G spot O. If you continue stimulating her and she lets go and pushes (bares down), her G will swell up and once her G spots swells (i read that sometimes the G spot size will swell up from a pea size on up to a walnut size…mine is the size of a walnut shell) you can then push on that G spot and get her to G spot O.
If any girl is having “issues” with any orgasm, its probably due to multiple reasons: illness, medication, non feeling aroused or not getting aroused enough. I know (for me) when I’m on meds (i.e. pain killers like perc’s or vic’s) I wont get an O, or if I’m not feeling well or not having been stimulated enough. So don’t get upset or frustrated if you or the girl can’t reach the O because it might not be cause you can’t find it, it could be reason above that i just mentioned (like being on meds,etc). I heard that a girls brain is a huge part in this, so she needs to have a clear mind and be “in-tuned” with whats going on. and also when she is trying too hard, it wont happen either…so let it takes its course with time and a lot of foreplay to get the mood right.
It took me awhile to realize I could have all these O’s in all these different places. So with time, in the right setting of the mind and being comfortable with the person your with (thats a important factor) a girl can reach O with many different ways.
I hope I have helped and good luck! :)
Reply to Brud182…she will feel like she has to pee but trust me if she rides it through she wont be peeing but squirting which is a very very pleasurable feeling!!
hey david , when you use the deep spot technique , can she orgasm during intercourse in the same session ?
@smoove, Absolutely she can. My program “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms” shows you exactly how to make her multi-orgasmic, both clitorally and vaginally.
David
so when i do it the first time and she responds well i dont necessarily have to wait a day or so for her to orgasm during intercourse ?
REPLY TO ALI do you find it easy to clit orgasm…my gets the feeling to pee when i stimulate her g-spot
deep spot = 3.5 to 4 inches in right?
my middle finger is only 3 inches long from the base to the tip…
My wife doesnt want to feel like she is having a gynocolgist exam with my hand pressed hard rammed against her as I try and reach it with my finger as deep as possible.
I can reach the deep spot with my cock (6 3/8 inches) but not my finger….any suggestions for how I can finger massage it?
Would a finger vibrator help? not only to reach it but would it add pleasure to the massaging the deep spot?
Also… OK I get that it is about 3.5 inches in…. but as you look down on a womans abs… is the deep spot in the middle or to either the left side or to the right side?
Tried this technique recently with my girlfriend and she went wild. She was writhing and moaning and pushing against me. It was awesome. She commented on never having a deep orgasm like that before.
hi david, my wife has never experienced a vaginal orgasm. she can have cliteral orgasms, no problem. during intercoarse with me on top and her legs back she will stop me because she feels as if she is going to pee. my question is, will she acually pee or is it just a feeling prior to orgasm. and any other advise would be great. thanks.
Neil,
When she feels she is going to pee, that means she is about to orgasm and ejaculate. Go for it! Then she will finally have a vaginal orgasm in intercourse. You have to get her over her hesitation, and you have to get vaginal orgasms in intercourse working.
David
Is an external orgasm more of a physical technique or a voice technique?
Hey David, I’m new to your site but I just seen the video of the deep spot and I can’t wait to try….
hi
tried the method and works like a charm need plastic sheets and a snorkel wow talk about wet and she went to bathroom prior. Shed thinks clitoral orgaism is more intense and I guess I want to focus on them for her. Even though she came over and over to her she said it just felt like she was peeing on the gspot tech. Any tips?
thanks
I am pretty good and patient in foreplay but I have two ladies that don’t seem to cummm clitorally easily. Believe me I use words, techniques, lube, tongue and they get so close but don’t let go. I am trying to find a good hypnotic script that will help me in that area but can’t figure out which one to purchase and one that works.
thanks
Will the Deep Spot technique work if the woman has had a hysterectomy?
@Yoshida, Yes.
I have given my wife multiple clitoral, g-spot/squirting orgasms, often in the same session. Can I throw a deep spot in there without it hindering her ability to have the others? Also, my wife is 4.5 months pregnant. Is it safe for baby? I have heard rumors that even the G-spot should be avoided during pregnancy, but I haven’t found enough compelling and trustworthy information to quit yet.
Dave,
my girl and I have been dating for two months now. She never had an orgasm with me. She is able to have a clitoral one she says, however last night we tried the deep spot technique for the first time. She responded to it well but for some reason she couldn’t come. She says it’s like the pleasure gets to a certain intensity and then cannot go beyond it. Does it take a lot of foreplay, cause we used some but maybe not enough or is it some other matter, cause it certainly is very pleasurable for her but we seem to be unable to go any further with it. Then at some point she says she feels like she’s going to pee but then nothing happens… Thanks for all the help,
Matt