The new Deep Spot Orgasm video is finally completed. This video shows you exactly how to use the Deep Spot Orgasm Technique, and how the Deep Spot is definitely NOT the G-Spot.
The Official Deep Spot Orgasm Video by David Shade
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So does the touch have to be firm like most of the G-spot videos teach us? And must you press the deep spot or do that “come here motion” like they do with G-spots?
Do that “come here motion”. Start with medium pressure to get her used to it. If she responds well, do it firmer. The better she responds, the firmer you apply.
Hey david,
is it possible you could help me out with giving women oral sexaul pleasura also known as “licking her out” i really dont have a clue what to do with it.
Hey James Owen
Oral can be ok but can you lick a ice-cream for 25 minutes?
Try the WelCOMED Clitoral Orgasm
Lubricate a must
Cheers,
Very well done and am happy to have the information, now that she has constant mutiple orgasms, what other mountains can be climbed?
Hello Dave. The girl I am currently seeing, says she has more orgasms with me than any other person she has been with. However, she says they are different than any she has ever had. Ocassionally, she lets out a puddle of warm wetness all over me and the bed. We are thinking it might be a G-spot orgasm. I have noticed she likes her left nipple pulled kinda hard. The position that is used, is her sitting on top of me while I am on my back, and at times, I thrust up my pelvis and then go back to a normal laying position, this is the way she is having orgasms. She says when guys have done oral sex on her, it really doesnt do anything for her, so she really doesnt want me to try. She says why mess with perfection, and likes when she gets on top. When we first got together, supposedly, she had an orgasm everytime we had sex, and the first time she didnt orgasm, she said it was nice to see I wasnt a total sex god. thanks for all of your input, it is very helpful. PS., it is a challenge to give her an orgasm 100% of he time, and have not been completely successful. THANKS, Paul
My girlfriend has not issues getting extremely wet. However, sounds like you still need to use lube to get the best results. Is that true? I’ve never used lube before and wondered what’s the best way to lube up or even introduce it?
It’s always a good idea to keep lube around and use it for techniques like the Deep Spot and Welcomed Method. While it’s great your girlfriend gets wet easily, it can happen that natural wetness will start to dry up and you don’t want her to get distracted while she’s building toward an orgasm.
Also, by making sure your finger is well lubed, you know the Deep Spot itself will be well lubed.
As for the best way to introduce it… just say “baby I’ve got something new for you. A new sensation that will feel really good.” Be the man, take the lead in the bedroom. As long as you are giving her great orgasms and incredible pleasure… you have nothing to worry about when it comes to introducing new things into your love making.
By the way, the lube I recommend is Astro Glide.
I’ve done your Deep spot technique often with my girlfriend now. She still is not getting an orgasm. I’ve used the lines inn your “Give Women Wild Screaming orgasms – By David Shade” and I get more reactions but no orgasms. I’m not losing faith, I know this is supposed to work but i don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
The lubricant I use is “WET platinum premium body glide staysWETLONGER.com”
She gets orgasms when she gets on top of me and I have my penis inside her and she rubs her clit on my pelvic bone(where it is supposed to be). And when I do oral sex on her, sometimes, its hard for me. I’ve tried the Welcomed method and It’s failing me. She said though that at some point when I was doing it she had the feeling like before she was going to cum for a moment.I really don’t know how to rub the clit perfectly. What is to firmly what is to hard? how should I do it perfectly ?
I’ve bought a bundle from you now and is waiting for it to ship to Iceland. please answer me here though if you have the time.
Do i need more foreplay, some times I just command her to take all her cloths of and I start.
Hey David I’ve been doing this for a couple years now.and its worked INCREDIBLY well. I recently read that you said to use 2 fingers spread about an inch apart when fingering the deep spot. I also rub from as far back as I can and all the way to the front. The past 3 girls I have tried this on have all pointed it out after wards..e.g.”You were hitting a spot let me tell you” lol Also with this is there any need to lick the clitoris?? BTW THIS IS MONEY!!remember this technique your GF’s will thank you for it
@me,
Yes, it does work incredibly well.
> I recently read that you said to use 2 fingers spread
> about an inch apart when fingering the deep spot.
That is only an alternative for later. First get her to have vaginal orgasms with just your middle finger on the deep spot.
No need to lick the clitoris. In fact, don’t. That would only strengthen any clitoral dependency.
David
Then doesn’t the welcomed method increase clitoral dependency as well?
BTW, my girl loves the WM! So I tie her to the bed and DON’T do it, hahaha. Then when I do it later, she goes crazy….
Hi David, thanks for the help you’re giving everyone. Recently, when using the deep spot, my woman has experienced light-headedness. She enjoys it, but feels like she’s going to pass out. Is that common?
Jose,
If your woman is clitoraly dependent, then giving her clitoral orgasms by any means increases clitoral dependency.
Like I always say, you absolutely positively must be giving her consistent vaginal orgasms in intercourse. Get that working first. Do not progress any further until you have that working. If you don’t have that working, you have nothing.
Once you have that working, then start doing all the other things.
David
Amancalledhawk,
Is that before she has an orgasm, while she’s having an orgasm, or after she had an orgasms?
David
Hi David, Is the deep spot technique can only be done using the middle finger? How can I give her a vaginal orgasm like a deep spot using my dick? well it is impossible for me use a come here motion using my dick. haha.
Hello David,
in article “The Deep Spot”, You wrote “But the most powerful way to stimulate the vagina is the back of the deep spot.”. In this movie you show to pushing front of the deep spot. Please tell us which place is better to create stronger orgasms
Best Regards
Maciej
@Maciej,
For the first time, use the front of the deep spot, just like I show in the video. It is a reliable way to give her her first vaginal orgasm and to awaken her vagina. On a later night you can use the back of the deep spot, which for most women will be a very powerful sensation.
David
Hi David,
My gf has never had an orgasm with ME or anyone else. I have used EVERY technique I know (including yours). She can get off with a vibrator, but just until recently she couldnt even do that with me in the room (she gets nervous). Have you ever experienced anything like this? I can make her squirt and anchor “CUM LIKE A GOOD GIRL” but I cant seem to use the anchor for orgasm?!
Thanks heaps
@Hypster,
She is clitorally dependent. In fact, vibe dependent. That is from years of diligent practice with a vibe on her clit. Her fault. Look at the trouble it causes. She obviously has issues with sexuality. But you are making some progress; at least she will use the vibe in front of you. You are really going to have to lead. You must wean her from her vibe dependency. You must give her clitoral orgasms with your finger. You must lead her to be more comfortable with sexuality in privacy with you. You are a long way from giving her a vaginal orgasm. And you can forget about trying instant orgasm on command for a very long time.
David
hi david.great video .It worked VERY fine to me in the past,but i have enjoyed a lot your video (i wish you do more,one with any technique you show in your book,it is easiest to show it when i begin a new relationship than explain once again :p.
see you
Hi David., In your reply to Maciej you say that you should use the front of the deep spot and then progress to the back of the deep spot.
I used to use the full stretch of my middle finger to presume that I was in the right place. I presumed that otherwise I had not reached the deep spot. How can you tell you have reached the front or back of the deep spot.
It’s just that I sometimes feel my middle finger was longer as it’s REALLY frustrating not being able to go deeper .without my finger aching after a short period !
@Shuhel,
You gotta exercise your forearms and fingers. Don’t let the lack of strength stop you right when she is getting somewhere.
David
Hi David, when I rub the deep spot my girlfriend says that she just wants to pee. She says the need to pee is so intense that she does not want me to continue rubbbing. She pees before we start & I tell her to trust me and let me continue rubbing but she wont. What else can I do David?
@Paul,
The sensation she is feeling is the approaching of female ejaculation. To properly deal with it is discussed in “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms” which is a matter of diverting her thoughts from self-consciousness.
David
Hi David, thanks for your reply. It’s not the strength I’m querying (my fingers are tough from 17 years of martial arts !), it’s the reach of my middle finger. I’m not sure if I’m reaching the front or back of the deep spot.
I’d like to reach further and give her even more pleasure but am not sure if I’m reaching far enough at full stretch.
Very frustrating for me as I want her to scream with pleasure even more !
Hi David, I want to ask you about body position with something like this. If your body is parallel to hers on the bed (you’re both lying on the bed or both standing up), your hand is at a very stressful angle – like trying to touch the inside of your elbow with your middle finger.. However, the better angles (her lying back on the bed with you standing or kneeling) feel clinical, awkward, and non-intimate – almost like a gynecological exam. Any advice? Any positions you like to use?
I uesd the same method on my ex for years but not with my finger.I would push my cock all the way in untill i could feel the openning of her uteress.I didn’t pump in and out .I would make the head of my cock swell then relax swell then relax we would get so wet it was awesome pushing harder and harder over and over she loved it sometimes she would shake all over and sometimes she would stop to pee but she always came back for more
But wait there is more when i did this it felt like my cock was bent 90 degrees and was about to snap in two i got so hard it was really painfull but so good.She loved itTry it Dave your girl mite like it and you will to .keep up the good work
l am married to an averagely fat woman.she only enjoy sex with me from behind or while on top me.Mr Shade,tell us how we can enjoy good sex,good positional sex & how can l arouse her G-Spot.Thank u.Femi
hey david, big fn of your work. thanks for chasing this. i use this technique on every girl i date – and usually with amazing results. however, a couple girls have said that yes it’s very pleasurable… but… they couldn’t handle the pleasure. and therefore, they wouldn’t let me continue to make them come. what’s the deal here?
@billy,
They couldn’t handle the pleasure because they don’t have the sense of deservedness enough to believe they deserve the pleasure. Only date high self-esteem women.
David
David,
I have been using the Deep Spot (and back deep spot) technique for several years with a series of girlfriends with incredible results… until my current girlfriend that is. She says she doesn’t like the feeling, that it is uncomfortable, etc. I make her come other ways, but I am frustrated that she will not allow me to give her pleasure with this technique. Have you heard of cases like this before? Can it be physical or is it definitely a psychological issue? Any suggestions?
@John,
It is definitely psychological.
David
David thanks for the tips, hopefully will wait for more of your other tips…
thanks
How do I GET MY GIRLFRIEND OFF HER VIBERATOR PS IT WAS THERE BEFORE ME
Quick question, do I stay at the pace you’re going at in the video or should I gradually go faster?
Hi David – I don’t think you answered my second question above. What if you can’t reach ALL the way back, do you have to reach right to the back as a pussy can get only so far with my finger.
Does going in deeper mean more pleasure for her ?
Happy Xmas by the way to you
Hey David, This sounds like a great technique I can’t wait to use it. One question I’m a virgin so i’m worried i not gonna perform well on my first time, so does this technique take practice for it to work or could i pull it off first time?
David,
me and my girlfriend have been having sex for 3 months now and she has not had ano orgasm. she said it feels alright but not too good so i started looking at this stuff. i tried the g spot and she only said it hurt. i just tried the deep spot last night and she says she can barely feel my fingers. i watched the video and used astroglide. i dont know what im doing wrong. is it not lubed enough or something?
Hi David. I hope you reply to this, but I can understand if you dont. My girlfriend and I have been going out almost a year and I’ve been quite succesful giving her orgasms via stimulation of her clit and her G-spot. The deepspot is new to me, I’ve have’nt heard of it until now. My girlfriend is very trusting of me and always looks forward to me trying something new aswell as her favourites. I was wondering, how will i be able to tell that I have found her deep spot? Is there any distinctive textures like there is the G-spot? I just want to know I’ve found the right place to make her happy.
Cheers
James
Anthony,
Just stick your middle finger inside her vagina along the front as far as you can. Then massage that area and watch her response. But my question is: does your girlfriend have vaginal orgasms when you rub her g-spot? Does she have vaginal orgasms in intercourse? If the answer is yes to both, you don’t need the deep spot, but it would be an entertaining alternative for her.
David
David and other guys confused,
Reading Shades books has changed my life not just sexually but in a all around manner. Just learning how to do the “deep spot” is not enough. You have to lead and be the man for her to respond to it. The best thing Shade teaches is not the “methods” but the “mindset”. \
Thank you David Shade
Hello David!
So should I do the welcomed method (clitoral stimulation)before deep spot stimulation or after foreplay should I just go straight to her deep spot. I need to understand :)
@Philip,
Sure, do the Welcomed method first, then wait a few minutes, and then do the deep spot. For most women, after they’ve had a clitoral orgasm, a vaginal orgasm comes quicker. Generally speaking.
David
I read a book that had great examples on how to go down on a woman. It mostly concentrated on using your tounge tough. For example start your first kiss at the base of her vaginal entrance, the fourchette and then work your way up. The list continues but what the book is really trying to say is that never go straight to her clitoris before stimulating other parts of her vagina. What do you think? I mean dont women get much hornier when you start by licking her pussy than going straight to her clitoris with your finger? :)
Thanks for your fast replys. Huge fan and I just ordered your books from amazon.
@Phillip,
Yes, get her warmed up, lubed up, and aroused before going to the clitoris. You don’t have to use your tongue to do it. Remember, you can’t talk with your mouth full, and dirty talk is critically important.
The last time you posted, you spelled your name with one ‘l’ but this time with two ‘l’s. Which is it?
David
Just one “l”. My mistake :)
Thanks for your great information. Dont have questions for now but I will figure out something soon. In touch man
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@Jared,
Yes I can. They are “The Secrets of Female Sexuality”, “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms”, “Select Women Wisely”, “Advanced Sexual Hypnosis”, “Give Women Hot Phone Sex”, and “Bring Out Her Inner Animal”. Join my free email list to learn more about them.
David