July 6, 2008
Carole Saves Her Marriage
In one of my recent newsletters, I spoke about men wanting to purchase my material, but their wives wouldn't let them. Such men are not being men, and such wives will continue to be frustrated and unfulfilled.
And then there are women who read my newsletter and would love to purchase my products to give to their husband, but such women are afraid they will bruise their husband's ego. As a result, such women remain frustrated and unfulfilled.
Today I received a very touching email from a woman in Oklahoma. She said that she was no longer interested in sex with her husband, so she purchased my products and gave them to him. Here is the letter she sent me. After you read the letter, I will tell you how she brought up the subject with her husband.
***EMAIL from Carole in Oklahoma:
Hi David,
I personally have learned so much about myself from reading your e-mails and about women's sexuality, I located myself. I had a difficult time waiting for my husband to digest all of the materials, but oh the rewards!
Even with the health challenges that he has, he has made amazing strides toward making our intimate life more fulfilling.
He recently commented that after 34 years of marriage, he never thought we would or could have such and active sex life! I asked him what he had expected, he said "not this"! My answer to him was you made me this way, are you complaining?
David, in your materials, I found the spark of encouragement for myself to let him be The Man. And because of that, I am now The Woman, trusting and accepting him as an exciting wonderful man, husband and lover.
Women need to make sure not to expect your partner to be able to read your mind, and make sure that you say what you mean and mean what you say. It isn't fair to your partner to not communicate what you want or what feels good and then be disappointed with the intercourse.
I had a wonderful relationship with my father. I tell you this because he always gave me the impression that I was his special girl and he took time to nurture me and let me know how much he loved his daughter. He was gone a lot in the Air Force, (yes I am an Air Force brat) and when he died, my mother never remarried. She said there was only one man for her. Now, (much later in life) I understand that he took the initiative in their marriage. That is why mom couldn't imagine being with another man.
I am very encouraged to read all the testimonials of men, young and old learning your materials. It is heartening to see that so many of your clients recognize that natural desire to be a nurturer to their women. That is wonderful!
I sure hope these women who hold their husbands back wake up, and the men reclaim their manhood.
Thank you sooooooo much,
Carole
—MY COMMENTS:
I was so touched by Carole's email that I asked her if she would record an audio testimonial for me. She was more than happy to.
In her audio testimonial, she told me what their marriage had been like and how she brought up the subject to her husband.
Then she shared how wonderful their sex life is now: she had her very first vaginal orgasm, she is having vaginal orgasms in intercourse now, her husband has learned to be the man, and she looks forward to her husband being sexual with her.
Listen to her story in her voice…
This is how it should be. Men and women have a right to enjoy their sexuality in their marriage.
For you ladies who want to enjoy your sexuality in your marriage with your husband, start by communicating to your husband how women really think, and what women really want, in my book "The Secrets Of Female Sexuality":
http://masterful-lover.com/n/secrets/
Then get the sexual techniques with my complete program called "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms":
http://masterful-lover.com/n/wild/
Give Women Incredible Pleasure,
David Shade
Filed under Married Sex Life by David Shade
Comments on Carole Saves Her Marriage »
Excellent. She says that she's submissive, and yet she was strong enough to be willing to walk if the husband didn't step up to the plate. That says something.
Good for them.
This testimony and the others like it does violence to a lot of the mainstream sex & relationship advice out there.
Keep up the good work sir.
That is a touching story. I'm surprised you did not say more in your blog entry about her husband's potentially terminal illness. That adds a lot more weight and human interest to her testimonial.
I ordered your book sometime back and you also provided a download of the book when I ordered. My computer got a virus and when they "cleaned" it up, there went my download. Could I possibly get another download since I travel and use my computer instead of the book. I would appreciate it.
I am 53 and have been working on finding someone I can share your information with because I too have never had an orgasm and I plan to have one before I die! I know I am missing out but at my age and the age that the men are at in my life, they take it very personal to ask them to read something when all the other women they have had never had any problem like this. It seems to be MY problem I am very disappointed and I guess until I find the right man who wants to be the man for me, I will continue to hope. I can relate to this woman's testimony. I would have to leave someone I love over a sex issue but it is important to women as well as a man.