Michele is Horny as Hell

Here is an interesting email conversation I had with Michele:

David,

I'm an attractive (just want to be honest), 25 year old woman in a relationship with a 34 year old man. I have a huge sex drive - I am constantly horny and thinking about sex. There are times when I even masturbate under the desk at work - how wrong is that!! (but oh so fun!)

My boyfriend doesn't want sex as much as me. And when he does he wants to "make love" where as I want to be "fucked like a slut"! I want to fuck every night! As often as possible! He wants it maybe once a week (if that!)

What is wrong with him? I'm worried that I'm going to cheat on him. I love him and everything else in our relationship is great. We've been together for 6 months

When we first got together the sex was fantastic! And it was every night! What can I do? Is it his age? HELP!!!

Michele

P.S. There's no chance that he's cheating on me.

Here is my first response to her…

Michele,

It obviously isn't his age, seeing as 6 months ago the sex was fantastic and was every night. Something happened to change things. What was it? And don't say you don't know.

David

Hi David,

Thank you for responding. When I wrote to you I was in a big hurry - I just looked over my email and it really doesn't communicate my situation accurately. Let me try again.

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and during this time we have been through a great deal together. We've lived together, moved house, changed jobs, had HUGE drunk fights (my fault!), and plenty more. He even asked me to marry him - but I declined the offer (too early). More recently, we have been very stressed about money. I know it sounds like we probably shouldn't be together however, I can't explain the connection we have - we're in love, we are soul mates. He summed it up the other day when he said to me "I am not whole without you."

Maybe it should be obvious to me that stress is what's caused our sex life to diminish. But why is it that I feel like making love or "fucking" even when I am stressed or unhappy? In fact, usually I want it more at these times - not sure why.

It just seems so wrong to me that I am the one almost begging for sex - isn't that usually the mans role? (I'm not saying it should be that way).

Can you advise me what I can do to make him more interested in sex? When we do have it it's great!

HELP!

Here is my second response to Michele…

Michele,

I think you already have it figured out.

When he experiences stress, he loses his sexual interest. Not unusual for a male. You handle stress by wanting more sex because for you it is bonding and replenishing and reassuring. Which explains why you start drunken fights.

His asking you so quickly to marry him is an indication of neediness. Which explains his choice in words when he says that he "is not whole without you."

He is NOT going to be more interested in sex until the stress goes away.

You are proof that it is not true that it is the man's role to beg for sex.

David

David,

I just want you to know how much I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my email. Am I the only woman who writes to you? Is your manual for men only or would I get something out of it?

I bought a porno movie last night and watched it while my boyfriend was at the pub. (Is that wrong?) Before we went to bed I said "Fancy watching a porn?" and he lost it! He was furious with me! He told me I was obsessed with sex and that having a relationship with someone is not about fucking. He said to me "I will never treat you like a whore - and that's what you want, I know".

I guess that's the end of that.

Cheers David

Michele

Michele,

You need a new man. A man who understands that women are sexual creatures.

There are almost as many women who email me as there are men who email me.

My manual is in reality a true story of two lovers. You would find it to be the ultimate in erotic romance novels.

David

Update: David Shade's Manual is no longer available. A new book has been added, The Secrets of Female Sexuality