***EMAIL from Lisa:
David,
You are so right about the four things that a woman must have.
My last relationship was very loving and romantic. Marc was very good to me, and I loved him.
We could talk literally for hours. We would spontaneously dance in the living room. We were always touching each other. We would give each other “the look” and know exactly what we were communicating to each other.
The sex was always very loving and romantic. But the sex was ALWAYS very loving and romantic. There was never any variation whatsoever. We never talked in bed. It was always quiet and dark. It was never in the day.
So I cheated on him all the time. One man, who was very exciting, gave me my first orgasm in intercourse. Then I’d go back to Marc for all the other stuff. I never had orgasms in intercourse with Marc.
I am physically attracted to Marc, he works out five times a week. He just doesn’t do it for me sexually.
Guilt got me. He is a good man and doesn’t deserve to be treated like this. So I let him go. It was the hardest thing I ever did.
What is left is too people who love each other, who have a bond, but can’t be together.
He now has a woman living with him. I get jealous that he is with her sexually. I know he just has her to have somebody, but I know she isn’t good enough for him. And she is jealous of me, because she knows that Marc is still in love with me.
I miss him, but I know it would never work with him.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It happens all too often. A woman who loves a man, but leaves him because the sex is lame.
And then, she meets a really exciting man, and she has her first vaginal orgasm.
