It is amazing how stupid some men can be…
EMAIL from Katie:
My problem is that I have been with my partner for 5
years and I am so attracted to him sexually, he has
everything I need except for a few things and I do have
quite a high sex drive considering.I have tried to spice up our sex life by introducing
some kind of dirty talk and games through txting but to
no avail. He always says later or tomorrow and it just
never happens. I have tried finding out what he likes,
his fantasies (which is something that is impossible for
me to let him go off and do) I’ve tried pressuring him
about it, Ive tried not pressuring him about it, I’ve
tried to just get on with it and accept how our sex life
is but it all just leads to frustration.And when it comes down to sex in general also, every
time I initiate anything, he refuses… yet says he
likes it when I get things moving… even though we
literally never does anything unless he says so which is
utterly frustrating for me. Again its always ‘later’ or
‘I’m tired’ or when such and such is/isn’t happening.I have been trying for 4 of our 4 and a half years
sexual relationship to get him to open up, to try the
dirty talk or txt, to share what he likes and dislikes.
I have tried getting him to instruct me so that I know
he is getting what he wants from our sex life, toys,
sexy outfits, books! I feel like I have tried everything
but he just refuses. More annoyingly, he just says
‘later’ meaning never. He lets me waste my money on these
things and never ever plans on using them.I feel like I am just at the end of my rope and as
much as I love him and am attracted to him, I don’t
trust that I will turn down an offer from elsewhere if
I get one. He just makes me feel like I am unattractive
and not good enough but swears blind that I am all he wants.I’m so confused/frustrated, is there anything else I
can try?
EMAIL from Melissa:
Here’s a little back ground on us. I am a 24 year old
woman and my man is 27. We were friends for 6 years
before we got together and we have now been together for
almost 4 years. Im not a whore or anything like that
but I have been with my share of men and I have never
had a complaint about anything I do unless you count
slow down, don’t stop or faster. He’s been with 5 women.He’s just become impossible. He wont go down on me,
and its not because I’m not clean down there because I
am. Trust me I believe in a clean body. He refuses to
touch anywhere near my vagina and when he does it hurts
so bad because he wont listen to me and ease up on the
clitoral pressure, those things he’s NEVER done to me
but he claims he likes eating pvssy and that he’s great
with his hands but he’s never backed that up.I’m a kinky kind of girl I like being choked and
having my hair pulled and anal and stuff like that and
he used to pull my hair and choke me when ever I would
tell him that that’s what I wanted. Not any more. And as
for anal he did it once said that he liked it, he really
seemed to, and he refuses to do it any more.But yet he expects me to do everything that he likes
when he wants it. And when I give him head or a hand job
right when he starts having pre cum he stops me and says
it hurts or tickles too much and I’m like what the hell?
Like I said before I have NEVER had a complaint before
with any other lover, they all told me that I was the
best they ever had and that if more women were like me
then the world would be much happier. No lie.And on top of those things for about the last 6
months or more every time we have “play time” its grope
and suck the boobs then he’s in and 5 minutes later, I
timed it, right when I’m starting to get good and into
it thinking this shit’s gonna be the bomb tonight he
cum’s. And I’m left laying there thinking great I need a
shower now.So my question is there something wrong with me, is
he having an affair, or what because I’m at my end. I
have actually considered getting a secret lover type of
thing with one of my ex’s. How can I get him to be more
sexual? I like having sex 3 to 4 times a day, he likes
twice a month and that’s all I get, 2 times a month. And
my other question is how come when a man wants sex the
woman, even if she doesn’t want it, has to give it up
but if the woman wants it she wont get it?Thank you for your time,
Melissa
My Comments:
Katie said, “I don’t trust that I will turn down
an offer from elsewhere if I get one.”
Melissa said, “I have actually considered getting
a secret lover type of thing with one of my ex’s.”
Women are highly sexual creatures, much more so
than most men can comprehend. In fact, women are
downright h-o-r-n-y! Women expect sex in their
relationship, and they expect it to be good.
This is all explained in detail in my book
“The Secrets of Female Sexuality“:
Women expect you to deliver the goods. There is
opportunity in this. When you are the best lover they
have ever had, women are very appreciative, and will
reward you in ways you could not have even imagined.
Discover how to be by far the best lover she has ever
had in my program “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms“:
Give women incredible pleasure,
David Shade
These two chicks just proved that women are promiscuous!