Comments on: Why Nice Guys Suck http://masterful-lover.com/blog/sexuality/why-nice-guys-suck/ Your Guide To A Better Sex Life! Tue, 24 Aug 2010 00:09:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Todd http://masterful-lover.com/blog/sexuality/why-nice-guys-suck/comment-page-1/#comment-1633 Todd Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:17:24 +0000 http://masterful-lover.com/blog/?p=9#comment-1633 Fine! No more mr.nice guy and i'm not holding the door open for you anymore or buying flowers or any dinners on valentine's day. Next time you ask me if your ass looks too big i'm going to tell you the truth. Chivalry, in my book, doesn't exist.<br>I'm the asshole you so desperately love! Fine! No more mr.nice guy and i'm not holding the door open for you anymore or buying flowers or any dinners on valentine's day. Next time you ask me if your ass looks too big i'm going to tell you the truth. Chivalry, in my book, doesn't exist.
I'm the asshole you so desperately love!

]]> By: Erika http://masterful-lover.com/blog/sexuality/why-nice-guys-suck/comment-page-1/#comment-1608 Erika Wed, 12 Nov 2008 16:35:57 +0000 http://masterful-lover.com/blog/?p=9#comment-1608 well, ok, I agree completely. there is nothing nice about being "nice." on the other hand, women need to take full responsibility for their own feelings and actions and SPEAK UP when they are not happy. it's not helpful to complain about someone, and it's way more authentic and empowering to communicate. trouble is most people never learned how to be assertive and speak up in the moment. I have found that non-violent communication (with books by Marshall Rosenberg, Kelly Bryson, and others) have been tremendously helpful to me. why allow yourself to get to the point of ranting and resentment when you can speak up as soon as you're not feeling good about a situation? just my two cents. - Erika (www.awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com) well, ok, I agree completely. there is nothing nice about being “nice.” on the other hand, women need to take full responsibility for their own feelings and actions and SPEAK UP when they are not happy. it’s not helpful to complain about someone, and it’s way more authentic and empowering to communicate.

trouble is most people never learned how to be assertive and speak up in the moment. I have found that non-violent communication (with books by Marshall Rosenberg, Kelly Bryson, and others) have been tremendously helpful to me.

why allow yourself to get to the point of ranting and resentment when you can speak up as soon as you’re not feeling good about a situation?

just my two cents.

- Erika (www.awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com)

]]> By: Franklyn http://masterful-lover.com/blog/sexuality/why-nice-guys-suck/comment-page-1/#comment-1603 Franklyn Sun, 12 Oct 2008 19:36:46 +0000 http://masterful-lover.com/blog/?p=9#comment-1603 All comments are true. I am a nice guy miself but sometimes like tonight I am in control and I say what goes and her respond is I love it when you take control. Respectable woman love it. All comments are true. I am a nice guy miself but sometimes like tonight I am in control and I say what goes and her respond is I love it when you take control. Respectable woman love it.

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