http://masterful-lover.com/blog/what-women-want/your-most-powerful-tool/ Your Guide To A Better Sex Life! Tue, 15 May 2012 03:13:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://masterful-lover.com/blog/what-women-want/your-most-powerful-tool/#comment-1607 Alex Tue, 28 Oct 2008 08:36:41 +0000 http://masterful-lover.com/blog/?p=3#comment-1607 I think part of this is what other "relationship gurus" have called "framing". You create a frame that allows her and makes her feel comfortable, respected, safe and appreciated in being expressive in ways that she normally feels she must hold back outside the bedroom. So I think a good approach to this is to basically communicate from the point of view that her sexuality, her secrets, her primal nature, all of it... are things that you love about her, things that she has every right to express, things that turn you on and make you feel good, things that you completely respect and give value to etc. With the dirty talk you are not just saying whatever dirty stuff comes into your mind, that is the horn dog. You are communicating that you are completely ok with, not fazed or intimidated by, and completely enjoy and are turned on her wild sexy nature. You can't fake it either. By doing this, you will allow her to open up and feel very good about being with you! You set the frame for a release and intimacy that she wants deeply. Also it is very important I think that she feels that she can trust you with her secrets. Am I on the right track? I think so... I think part of this is what other “relationship gurus” have called “framing”. You create a frame that allows her and makes her feel comfortable, respected, safe and appreciated in being expressive in ways that she normally feels she must hold back outside the bedroom.
So I think a good approach to this is to basically communicate from the point of view that her sexuality, her secrets, her primal nature, all of it… are things that you love about her, things that she has every right to express, things that turn you on and make you feel good, things that you completely respect and give value to etc. With the dirty talk you are not just saying whatever dirty stuff comes into your mind, that is the horn dog. You are communicating that you are completely ok with, not fazed or intimidated by, and completely enjoy and are turned on her wild sexy nature. You can’t fake it either. By doing this, you will allow her to open up and feel very good about being with you! You set the frame for a release and intimacy that she wants deeply.
Also it is very important I think that she feels that she can trust you with her secrets.
Am I on the right track? I think so…

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