***EMAIL from Paul:
Hi, I bought your Manual a few weeks ago, and like any normal guy, I immediately devoured its contents. Your sections on techniques were eye opening, to say the least, because it explained a few things that had happened to me with an ex…
For a long time I’d known that I could drive her nuts by *lightly* stroking her body with the slightest touches from my fingers. I used to do this for an hour before initiating things, while watching TV, for instance, and “petting her” like I might a cat.
I did it cause I knew it made her feel good (as opposed to it being sexual), and didn’t realize what I was doing to her all that time!! I also knew that my voice and manner of speaking would make her space out. I knew all this stuff, but didn’t realize how it might tie together.
One night, while making out on the bed (clothes on and no genital contact of any kind), I stroked her and kissed her and talked to her and just enjoyed the experience. This goes on for about a half-hour, and suddenly she’s whimpering in my ear and clutching me. I had made her come! She said “That was awesome! It was like you were inside my head!!”
And, being a guy (and *having* to brag a little; I earned it!), I discussed it with every woman I knew (including her), and almost all were just amazed that such a thing was even possible. I figured it was just a freak event, and let it go. But as soon as I read your descriptions of what your Manual covered, I knew you were on to something immediately!
Thanks so much for putting together such a cool Manual. Hell, if you need the story for a testimonial or something, feel free. It may sound stupid, but it seems like guys forget the goal of seduction, the point of it all, which is sex, and it might as well be as good as possible. Part of me wants to keep your Manual secret, but at the same time, everyone should be learning about this stuff! Thanks!
Yes, a woman’s mind is very powerful and sexual. And it is your passion for giving her pleasure that brings her sexuality to life.
Many guys would probably get their hand pushed away while stroking their woman on the couch because the woman would find it irritating. But most guys just rush for the sex when they get into the bedroom!
But you spent a half hour in the bedroom lightly stroking her. You were adoring her and reveling in her. That makes her feel appreciated and special, which allows her to open even more.
When you lightly stroke her and talk softly to her in the bedroom, it gets associated with closeness and sexual intimacy. Because you did not rush into sex, it does not get associated with horniness.
Then, at a later time, when you lightly stroke her on the couch, she again feels that sexuality and can enjoy it because she knows that to do so does not commit her to have to quickly move to sex. Furthermore, it is affirming and reassuring for her, which makes her feel even closer to you.
You trained her to associate your voice and gentle touch to her feelings of closeness and sensuality. She surrenders to your voice and touch, totally lets go, melts into completeness, integrates closeness with sexuality, feels completely naked to you in every way, and her mind naturally slips into an orgasm.
This is how it’s done guys. You lead, she surrenders, she experiences her sexuality even deeper, she allows herself to become even more naked to you, she surrenders further, she experiences her sexuality even deeper, she allows herself to become even more naked to you.
In my program “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms”, I discuss all of this at great length with numerous specific examples of what to say and how to say it, including the language to bring out her sexuality, lots of fun ways to give her an orgasm and how to link it to your voice!