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Email from Ray Gerrard in Indiana:

Hi David,

I’m not sure if you get too many emails from married men, but I simply have to tell you about our wonderful experience with your material. I’m 43 and married to a stunning beauty who is 7 yrs my junior. We have two children, and during our marriage we’ve run the full gamut of ups and downs both in the bedroom and the living room. Things were pretty rough for a while there when we had fallen into more of a ‘roommate’ relationship and had lost the fire that originally existed for us. She had started out as a very adventurous lover and unfortunately, that faded as time went by and we (I) got a little too comfortable.

Things were beginning to turn around over the past several years as I began stepping it up in the bedroom with the realization that there needed to be a ‘ravisher’ and a ‘ravishee’ when it comes to passion. She gradually began responding to that and then she had lunch with a girlfriend last summer who put her on to your material. I received an email at work with a subject line that simply said, “Oh baby!” The email contained a link to your website and simply ended in, “I blushed through half the ad and had to stop reading! But my temp is up to be sure!”

That was certainly enough of a nudge for me and I went online and immediately ordered ‘The Secrets of Female Sexuality’ and then ‘Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms’ right after that. We tried the ‘Welcome Method’ and that was pretty good; and then I went for the ‘Deep Spot’ and it totally blew her mind! She now routinely has vaginal and multiple orgasms during intercourse, and is one very happy woman. It’s funny how many doors that opens up… when a woman is satisfied, the man will often get more than he could or would have dreamed of in the first place!

All of this motivated me to continue to push the envelope of our sexuality together and take her to new heights, and so I purchased your Manual and we’ve been having fun putting that material to good use. There are so many great things for us to do in there, I think it will take us a while to get through all of it… not a bad problem to have!

More than anything else, and aside from all of the amazing techniques I’ve learned… I think the biggest thing is the realization of just how incredibly sexual women are, and the shift in my approach in leading the way to bring that out in her. I really don’t know how that would have happened without you and your work entering the picture.

I ordered your ‘Give Women Hot Phone Sex’ today, and I can hardly wait to get my hands on it and begin incorporating that into our exploration. I feel as though we’ve come so far, yet have so much to look forward to together. Knowing that we’ve only just scratched the surface makes our future that much more exciting.

Your stuff is phenomenal. One of the reasons I like coaching executives is that it can have such a great impact on so many lives in their companies… but have you ever stopped to think of the impact you are having on the world? Great sex equals happy marriages equals happy homes and on an on. Pretty cool!

Most of the couples I’ve come across seem to have lost all passion for one another after only a few years together. I thank you for providing me with the tools to win ours back… you truly have made a huge difference in our lives.

I thank you for what you’ve done for my wife and I… and I’ve only just scratched the surface!

Wishing you all the success you can stand…you’ve earned it!

With much appreciation and admiration,
A very happy husband

Hear it in Ray’s voice:

Right click here to download Ray’s testimonial

I am not a sex therapist or a counselor.
I do not teach men how to last longer,
I teach men how to give women orgasms.

A therapist or counselor can help with
personal issues, but they wouldn’t be able to tell you
how to give women wild screaming orgasms.

If you want to give your woman wild screaming
orgasms, and bring out her inner slut, you have come to
the best possible place. This is my specialty.

But then maybe you don’t have an issue at all.
Maybe you just need the correct knowledge and beliefs…

Email from a reader:

Sex with my girlfriend is great, but I always come up short of giving her an orgasm. It seems I always finish right before she does, and if i lasted just a little bit longer, she would be there. I was wondering if you had any suggestions. Thanks.

My Comments:

You got it all wrong dude. All wrong.

Take this advice from one of my clients…

Email from “Lehlohonolo” from South Africa:

Hi David

First off I would like to express how fortunate I feel to have found your work at 20 years of age, I proudly own most of the products that you have created and well, you made the stuff you know how liberating it can be to discuss knowledge that is so powerful.

I’ve wanted to write to you a long time ago but have not had a chance to use much of your teachings as I discovered it while I was in the process of making some major changes in my life, and unfortunately certain priorities have over shadowed my sex life. Although lately with more free time I have available to me I have gotten a chance to test out and play around with the work from your products and WOW!!!

I just want you to understand where I’m coming from quickly, I was in general unhappy with my sexual performance as a whole, being young and inexperienced. I’d get over excited and come too quickly and it was frustrating, I’d tell these girls all kinds of things about how I wanted them to explode and get them all hot but when the time came I couldn’t walk the talk.

The final straw was while I was staying in England I some how seduced a stunning young blonde German girl. Even my friends couldn’t believe it, she was a certified 10!

One night while out we where talking and while building rapport she told me about her past sexual experiences and how boring the guys where, and how they all just lasted barely enough for her to notice what happened. I took it as my cue and started talking about how I would be different, how I’m better and basically promised her the fuck of her life.

She was very excited and even decided we need to go be alone Once we where alone in the room it was a sad, sad affair. A couple of minutes and boom there’s me cuming just like the rest of them. The look on her face was heart breaking it became very awkward and she left and I never saw her again. That’s when I got fed up and started investing in your products.

That was a few months back; 3 days ago I gave a lovely young lady four orgasms using the deep spot method. I feel an enormous amount of pride right now feeling her pussy nearly break my fingers watching the look on her face, I was blown away. I’d never seen that before and I made a wonderful little discovery.

I thought she’d be tired after coming but bloody hell NO!!! She just wanted more! I can’t stop laughing thinking about the contrast in how males and females react after an orgasm, she was ready to go just like that, well after she caught her breath of course.
hahahahahaha.

I am working on getting my life together at this point in time, as a man I’m working on being someone I respect. I am working on my life and my beliefs to be the kind of man that the worthy ones can be attracted to.

If you think it would help I’d be more than happy for you to use my words as a testimonial, if it will help some one out there to take responsibility and commit to improving themselves.

Something you mention that I’m finding is helping me be better at this stuff is the realization that I was being selfish and concentrating solely on my pleasure, when I cum, where I cum, how is my orgasm. It’s not about me, it’s about her liberation, about letting that wonderfully sexual woman inside her come alive and express herself. This is something I’m trying to ingrain into my psyche and already things are beginning to change. Women I’m sexually involved with are behaving differently, it’s hard to describe, its like their aura changes to one of being sexually comfortable even the way they touch me. Like I said it’s hard to describe but it’s fascinating for me to see.

You can rest assured that I will continue to explore and use your teachings. I have been holding myself back to an extent and have been ignoring the power of my voice. Well no more, it’s time to shatter some realities, theirs and mine.
Your Student Lehlohonolo

My Comments:

This is awesome. I am very happy for you.

So, let me see if I understand this correctly…

With the German 10 girl, you put it in right away and blew it. Correct?

Then, with the lovely young lady 3 days ago, you took my advice and you used your finger to first give her vaginal orgasms, and her pussy nearly broke your finger because she came so hard as you watched the look on her face, and she wanted even more. Correct?

It is all about having the correct knowledge and beliefs.

Email from Adam J. in Montreal:

Hi David,

I’m writing a quick note to say thank you for all the fantastic products you’re putting out.

After I bought the cheapest one I could find (I’m on a student budget) I was so impressed by not only the information, but by honesty with which it is given, that I bought every product you have available, because I had no doubt as to their value for my money.

My girlfriend of 3 years and I are both VERY satisfied with the results… I’ll mention specifically the Sexy Dirty Talk, because when I started using it my girlfriend would look at me wide-eyed after coming harder than she ever had, and say “What the hell just happened?? Oh my god you’re amazing!”

An unexpected added benefit is that I no longer have any trouble controlling myself, if you know what I mean, as a result of what I’ve learned.

Thanks so much, really, and all the best to you.
Adam

My Comments:

You can simply stick it in and blow it, or you can do as I reveal in my products, and be a god in bed.

Email from Tore Gundersen in Norway:

Dear David Shade

In your material you write that it’s not the quantity that matters but the quality; this in reference to guys feeling inadequate because of virginity or lack of experience. And I am now writing to you with a testimonial on exactly that… Because I am 29 years old, had my first kiss 10 days ago, lost my virginity two days ago and yet managed to make her cum so hard that she wiped off a few tears after and couldn’t stop smiling for many hours later and keeps calling me all the time to come over and spend the night.

It’s so amazing that if I didn’t experience it myself I would have called the story a lie.

Here’s the story in detail, starting with me, the shy guy that felt inadequate because of the lack of experience. I met a girl at an online dating site, and we found it as a very good match when we went out for a quick drink. So we met again during the day a couple of times and then finally a proper date with a movie and a late dinner. We went back to her place, and up until now we’d been flirting and teasing, but hardly any touching at all and no kissing whatsoever. I was simply too nervous to escalate.  I felt pretty silly being 29 years old not having the courage to kiss a girl that was into me. But the problem was that I’d never tried it before and was very worried about what people would think if they found out. So here I was on the verge to be exposed trying my best to let pride go so I could start getting some experience.

It was getting late and I was thinking about getting home, as I knew that I wouldn’t find the courage to escalate things to a physical level this time either. I had never had the guts before, so I didn’t have any reason to think otherwise. But getting transport home wasn’t too easy, so when she offered for me to sleep over if I would act as a gentleman I accepted. And all kinds of things raced through my mind… did she mean for me to sleep in her bedroom or the sofa? I was filled with both tremendous fear going to the unknown and excitement as I deep down knew where this were heading.

The thing to remember here is the amount of fear that has been allowed to fill my head for years and years. I was almost twice the age most people have their sexual debut and was at a certain point in life on my way to accept that I was asexual and would spend the rest of my life masturbating alone.

The irony here is that I am actually pretty good-looking and have been told on several occasions that I am very attractive, so my problem was solely mental and related to self esteem. And the reason goes back to when I was 9 and was bullied because of my girlfriends. Boys that age are fearful of “girl-bugs” and pushed me around to kiss them. As a result I stayed away from girls, and the damage was never repaired as I stopped going to parties and social events and hence missed out on the social and sexual development that teenagers are supposed to go through.

A few years ago I realized this and starting working very hard on my self esteem and to be relaxed also in informal social settings such as parties. It has worked tremendously well, and me going out with this girl was something I saw as the end of the treatment and me fully healed.

So now that you know and understand the pressure and buildup in my head we can return to the bedroom where I was almost shaking with nervousness and almost hoping we would only sleep. I figured she would notice my nervousness, but hoped she would write it off as many are nervous the first time they sleep together.

We talked for a while and I was calming down when I thought that it was now or never and inched myself a little closer and leaned in to experience my very first kiss. We both enjoyed it, and despite some clumsiness it escalated into a lot of touching until the clothes were gone… and at this point I lost my erection. But I remembered from David’s material that you must not lose your cool over loss of erection or premature ejaculation and that the girl will copy your reaction. So she will freak out only if you do… So I waved it off with a wink and said something like “ooops… we lost junior… probably just a bit of nervousness… he’ll be back soon.”

Then I asked if we could try something I had read about… the welcomed method, and she complied willingly. It’s a technique described in detail in David’s material so I figured I wouldn’t be able to go wrong on that one. After that we both went to sleep as I figured that I would have my chance some other day and also confident that I had a good backup technique to satisfy her if junior would leave me again.

During the next day she teasingly asked me when was the first time I had sex, because she suspected that I was a virgin. But I just replied in the same teasing voice that the information was classified and only to be revealed at a later stage. She was puzzled and couldn’t figure out if I was confirming or denying her suspicion, but left it at that. I didn’t deny her the information out of fear of her reaction, but because I was afraid that it would cause me to feel inferior. And feeling inferior just increases insecurity which is something I definitively didn’t need.

A few days I spent the night again, and lost junior due to nervousness again, but waved it off like last time. This time I tried the G-spot with great success and to my surprise I was ok with the temporary impotence because the nervousness was almost gone this time. What was most important to me was not to leave my woman unsatisfied, because I figured that a satisfied woman would make you confident as it removes a lot of the performance pressure.

And I was correct… The third night the erection was gone for a little while, but when I introduced the deep spot she was moaning and wriggling so hard in bed the erection came back and she begged me to f*** her, and she came so hard that she both laughed, cried and giggled after. She told me that she was deeply impressed because she had never ever before orgasmed the first time she slept with a guy.

And here I was… just lost my virginity and feeling SO PROUD that I could make a woman come like that. It completely blew my mind as I was expecting lousy sex and lots of practice before I could get anywhere near pleasing a woman properly. So yes David, it is the mindset and quality that matters, not the quantity!

My deepest thanks David.

Best Regards

Tore Gundersen

Story from Rich and Erin.

Rich was a virgin until he met Erin. They told me about the success they have had since Rich purchased my book…

Right click here to download Rich and Erin’s testimonial

Soon after Rich purchased my book, he began to give Erin wild screaming orgasms!

Rich was concerned when he purchased my book that he did not have enough sexual experience to make use of the material in the book. I assured him that sexual experience does not mean sexual skill. Knowledge does.

Rich gave Erin her first vaginal orgasm.

By the way… they are still together over three years later and have a wildly passionate sexy relationship.

Here is an e-mail that I received from a female reader of my newsletter, which is typical of many e-mails that I have received:

I had sex with a man that had a medium size penis and I used to cum like crazy. Now I have met this other guy that is well endowed with a very nice size penis, but it is really hard for me to cum. Can you help me figure this out?

Here are some actual e-mails that I have received from men (who had not yet purchased any of my Masterful Lover products):

I have been either blessed or burdened with a big penis. The woman I am with now has lots of trouble taking in the whole thing. She said it feels like it’s bottoming out most of the time, to a very tender area inside, leaving her with a very uncomfortable feeling. If in the missionary position, if I slide in slowly, she’s ok. I can’t go hog wild because it hurts her, but if I don’t go hog wild then I find it hard to maintain an erection. She has never had a vaginal orgasm. She has only had orgasms through clitoral stimulation. I’ve been working with her trying to get her to orgasm in the “G-spot” area, with no success yet. Do you have any suggestions or positions that would make sex more enjoyable for her and me?

In reply to your e-mail, I would say to you: She is not having orgasms in intercourse, so what’s in it for her?  The same old routine every time and she never comes.  It gets boring, and the regular impaling against her tender cervix becomes downright irritating.  It gets really old.
To give her her first vaginal orgasm, use your 3 1/2″ long middle finger on her deep spot, which isn’t that “deep” actually. It’s just “deeper” than the G spot.  Once you do that, she’ll be much more receptive to intercourse, though you’re still going to have to choke up on your bat.

Here’s another e-mail (complete with the misspellings):

my girl has never had an orgasim.  i have had sex with her four miserable times doing what i thought was “good” but failing miserably.  How do i change the current from what was done to what should be done, causing her to have multiple orgasims and having her trust me despite my last performance?  i have a big cock but, this is really humbeling to write you about my shortcommings, but not only do i need to change precendence verbally but more imporantly, physically…. going to buy your stuff bro, need help!!

You can tell a lot about a person based on whether they use an upper-case ‘I’ or a lower-case ‘i’ to refer to themselves.

I recently got with a 23 year old female who told me that she has never gotten an orgasm from any guy whose penis size is under 10 inches. I told her that I was an 8 and one night when we were having sex she said that she wasn’t feeling any orgasms any time soon, so we stopped. I felt weird and tried finding new ways to give her an orgasm. What can I do to make her have a mind-blowing orgasm that will make her forget all about a man’s size?

In reply to your e-mail, I would say to you: You may have always thought that you were big, but she’s got you thinking that you’re too small.  She’s good, and you’re being a wimp.

She said that she has never had an orgasm from any guy under 10 inches.  You took her challenge even though you didn’t measure up.  That puts you in the wimp position.  You should have simply said, “Sorry Honey, can’t help you. I’m only an 8.”

Possibly, is the order of things said in your story a little different?  I can imagine a man trying to impress a woman by saying, “I have an 8 inch cock,” and then the woman cutting him down to size by replying with, “I’ve never gotten an orgasm from any guy who’s under 10 inches.”  She doesn’t take you seriously anymore, and thus she is not going to respond to you in bed.

Frankly, I’m surprised she went to bed with you.  She was probably curious to see what it was like to be with an 8 inch cock.  Evidently disappointing.

Here’s an e-mail from one of my clients:

David, I am having the most incredible sex, as often as I want, and of course, I am giving her the best sex of her life and she can’t get enough. Do you want to know the one thing she always asks me? She’ll look at me after I’ve just taken her, or given her an orgasm over the phone, or told her that I am going to fuck her in her office, or anytime I am direct and tell her what I’m going to do? She looks at me expectantly and asks, “You’re never going to change, right? This isn’t some sort of trick? You’ll always be this way, right?”

She had two orgasms the other night before I even got in her all the way. I just stuck the head in and let it sit there and she had two – just from the head.

This is, of course, a hot girl that is used to having men pursue her and wine and dine her, take her on private airplanes to movie premiers, etc, etc, etc.
David, life is good. Life is oh, so fucking incredibly good.

Thanks for showing us the way.

Every woman can have vaginal orgasms in sex.

That may be hard to believe by the 70% of women who don’t, especially the sexually frustrated wives. It may be hard to believe by the men who think they are not big enough or don’t last long enough.

But the truth of the matter is that there is no such thing as some women being preordained to have vaginal orgasms and some women being preordained to not have vaginal orgasms. They all can have vaginal orgasms. This included vaginal orgasms in intercourse.

It requires knowing what to do.

I receive many emails from sexually frustrated wives. Here is one such email…

David,

I have been married for 16 years and with the same man for 20 years. I am a 36 year old woman who is clitoris dependent in order to have an orgasm. These don’t come very often and lately has began to really frustrate me. I want so desperately to experience those mind shattering vaginal orgasms that your clients talk about!

I’ve experienced a couple beginnings of vaginal orgasms but then it stops. What little I’ve felt makes me want more. My sex drive has reverted to that of a teenager now )

I was surfing the web trying to find out what I could about the female orgasm when I ran across your site. I had almost reverted to the thought that vaginal orgasms don’t happen. That women on dvd/tv were just faking it.

You are right on so many things. Especially about the fact of what we want. We are just afraid to ask for it.

I ordered your book on giving women wild screaming orgasms for my husband and myself. I can’t wait to get it!

I want to feel pleasure every time we have sex. I want to experience vaginal orgasms on a regular basis. I hope I’m not being selfish but I want to orgasm every time since he gets to.

Is it too bold for me to tell him that there will be no more sex until he finishes your course?

Can your book help me as a woman?

Linda

I sent this email to her…

Linda,

You are clitoris dependent from decades of diligent practice.

Of course those women on DVDs are faking it. It’s all for show.

But I assure you, vaginal orgasms exist. ANY woman can have them.

Yes, my program “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms” can help you. Your man must read it cover to cover, and he must listen to each and every CD. And then, in the bedroom, you must do exactly as he says. Surrender to your husband, and trust the material.

Look at it this way, if you could do it yourself, you’d have done it a long time ago. I however, and all of my top clients, have collectively given countless women their very first vaginal orgasm in intercourse. Your husband will do the same for you. Don’t get in his way, or yours.

Enjoy…

David

A few weeks later I received this email from Linda:

David,

First of all, Thanks for your program!! However, now it is all I can think about!! I think I now know what it is like to be a man (in regards to thinking about it all the time)!!

When my husband began massaging my deep spot I started to feel it from my head all the way down to my toes. Before I could even tell him I was getting ready to come it happened and he knew it. It was wonderful!!

Just the other night I had my first vaginal orgasm while he was inside me. OMG! It was wonderful It just keeps getting better and better and I can’t wait for the next time! I think about it quite often!! I can’t get enough!

I’m an accountant and am having a terrible time focusing at work! For instance, today… my husband is out of town and I couldn’t focus for the life of me so I ended up having to go home for lunch and take care of things myself He has definitely released the animal in me!

I feel as though I am more sexual than him now! Any suggestions on how to get my focus back? I definitely don’t want to go back to how things were before!! This is soooooo much better

Thanks David!!

Linda

I asked Linda if she would record an audio testimonial for me. She was more than happy. Hear her amazing story…

Linda tells how she has vaginal orgasms:

Rich was a virgin until he met Erin.
They told us about the success they have had since Rich purchased my book…

Soon after Rich purchased my book, he began to give Erin wild screaming orgasms…

Rich was concerned when he purchased my book that he did not have enough sexual experience
to make use of the material in the book. I assured him that sexual experience does not mean
sexual skill. Knowledge does…

Rich gave Erin her first vaginal orgasm…

Is a vaginal orgasm different from a clitoral orgasm?…

But, admitedly, much of Rich’s success was because he chose wisely…