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The Secrets of Sexual Power
What Women Wish You Knew About Sex… but will never, ever tell you to your face!
Hi Mr. Shade!
Where do I begin… The way I see it, you've opened up a unique forum for men. A place where we reaaally can talk and learn about what matters – women. How to understand them. How to love and respect them. How to give them pleasure beyound what I personally ever could comprehend.
Women has had their magazines (etc) for so many years, talking about subjects important to women. Where do men go for the same experience and info? Yes, we have sports magazines and such, but come on… We don't really learn about women just because som sex-therapist answers the age old question again and again – “Am my penis too short?”
I sent an e-mail to a famous Norwegian sex-therapist. A gave him your name and your web-adress. He hadn't heard about you, but he wanted to check it out. He's in for a good treat!
The snowball has began to roll. May it turn into a new reformation – for both men and women.
Thank's a lot from the bottom of my heart for showing the way! And for providing a forum where men can be men. And thus be the best we can be for the woman in our lives!
There's so much truth to this stuff.
Once I made my girlfriend squirt she opened up so much sexually, and also emotionally. And when I got to know her, she was a kinda shy and timid person. We've had a deeper connection since then and her sex drive increased a lot. At some point she even told me that to her it feels like she wants sex more often than I do, wich was quite unexpected when I am comparing to the start of the relationship, where she didn't want sex very often. (I didn't have a clue back then
). All in all I wouldn't have believed how far this knowledge can lead if someone would have told me. You just have to find out yourself.
Oh, and by the way it is an incredibly awesome feeling if your woman is lying next to you and having an orgasm. It definately has a big influence on me, even if I am not orgasming at the same time as her. Some call it heart energy, but whatever it is it is truly impressive.
I finally realized that I don't need to have some kind of power OVER a woman, instead it's about BEING powerful and lead her to open up…thank you for helping me guys!
Hi Francesco
Exactly! The true power comes from within you and the knowledge that women want to be highly sexual, but it's up to you as the man to lead them.
It's a very different mindset than we get from the mainstream information sources.
Hi Werner,
Thank you for your kind words. And it is very true that men don't have a source of information they can trust on female sexuality. It took me many years and many mistakes to figure this stuff out. Virtually all the sex books and videos all perpetuated the same crap, and women did NOT respond to it.
My mission is to get the truth about female sexuality out there so both men and women can enjoy one of life's greatest pleasures together.
I look forward to hearing from the famous Norwegian sex-therapist. Thank you for putting him in touch.
Hello Albert,
I love your story! Thank you for sharing it. As you say, there is so much truth to this stuff.
And because you didn't let her being shy and timid scare you from leading her sexually, she has been opened to powerful new sexual experiences. And you saw one of the common results that surprise men… “she wants sex more often” than you do.
And there is nothing more awesome than being next to your woman as she is having an orgasm. It is a powerful shared experience for both of you and brings you closer together.
Thank you again for sharing this!
I enjoyed the first disk and am looking forward to the following ones.
Ernie
I looked at it the moment I got your newsletter.
Those 7 lies are indeed my main “sticking points,” and I could really
use that information, thank you!
Now whenever I'm with women I kind of repeat “They are sexual beings” in
my head and it does help to be more relaxed around them.
Hi Thomas,
You are welcome. And you have discovered what it means to be sexually confident and sensually powerful with women. This is the essence of Sexual Power.
Mr.Spade I have a really important question for you so please answer it. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a good 4 months now,And I now she has had boyfriends with a larger penis then me.But this is my problem..I am very very much into going down on her, I mean I do it forever.And she does love this.But when it comes to sex I can only last for about 30 to 35 minutes.The real problem is she loves it when I go fast,and I can tell she is really liking it,and I know that if I weere to keep going fast for even ten minutes without having to stop for a minute that she would orgasm.I can only go fast for like 30 seconds then I stop for a minute and then go again.But she rolls her eyes when i do this..But yesterday I found a new position that let me go extremely fast and she couldnt stop telling me how much she loved me…..But once again I couldnt go for a long time….
Basically my question is….How do I keep at a fast speed , for a long amount of time and not want to get off. I really really would like to go all night long with her.
And please dont say condoms…Because me and her both hate using them becasue to us you cant feel anything.
My last question is ,and please answer honestly I am about 6 1/2 to 7 inches ,and I want to no is that small.
Thank you very much for your time and will look for your response.
A woman's vagina can be awakened such that she can have an orgasm from the mere act of simply sliding into her. And she can be trained to come continuously for 35 minutes, or longer, no matter how fast or slow you pump.
Oh, but that's the advanced course, which you aren't ready for if you ask if 6 1/2 inches is small.
Thanks! The finger techniques worked very well for me and my partner. I know your site does not say much on pleasing yourself, but i do not get satisfied when my partner tries to return the favor. My own orgasms do not seem very strong i and i am curious as to why. I do work out my PC muscle everyday. I was wondering if somebody knew something that might increase my pleasure. I do not want to participate in sexual activities more than twice a week and my partner wants to everyday.
zero to hero in 5 minutes flat……amazing stuff!
dame fine stufe
I stumbled across this site looking for a way to please my man … thinking he would try to please me !! I'm 47 and have NEVER had a vaginal orgasm .. OMG I have sent the link to my guy I have hope
Thank you
Hey David
Info is fantastic on here great place to get educated.Had a question to
ask if I may would like to know if your products cover oral sex? how to do it properly? seen to many porn films ha would appreciate any pointers on the subject.Do ya cover this in detail?if so which product? as want to become good lover for my gf.thanks man
Who knew john locke knows so much about giving a woman earth-shattering orgasms? All jokes aside, David Shade, you are the master! BTW i just read about your pattern on MASF, AWESOME!
Hi David,
On your last video, you said there are four things you must make a woman feel… One of them was, ‘Make her feel special’
What exactly do you mean by that?
Are you saying by the pleasure you give her, or by the way you are with her.
Could you give an example of making her feel special verbally.
Thanks,
Ash
hi david i have a problem with premature edjaculation whatv should i do about this? or how do i make myself go for longer?
why some wowam dont have orgasm while having sex/?
hi get mad when I talk about sex.I’m very open and love to talk about my pleasure.The open relationshipis a good thing your sharing every thing with each other and sex is part of that love .
Can too much of exitement affect how long i can last?
Hi,
I’m a 42 years old femaile and have been married for nearly 25 years. My husband has no sex drive. I have tried to over come this issue and have ended up cheating due to someone finding me attractive. Needing the attention and desire to feel good about myself but I always feel let down due to it being just sex. I want to experience the orgasm with my husband and increase his sex drive and desire for me. I normally masterbate alot and i have a vaginal masterbation. But, how to have one while having sex is my desire. I want to be dominated and have my man take me places but he is not willing to admit there is a problem. Question is, what do I do?